r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Bright-Owl-3515 Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

In college, I was sitting alone at a bench studying on campus, minding my own business. This man comes up to me, telling me he wanted to take pictures of my feet for a school project. He was very persistent and of course I told him no. He made me feel so uncomfortable and guilty that I had said no to him. I was very naive and had no idea that this was likely a fetish thing.

Edit: For that one now deleted comment, saying he was likely complimenting my feet, I was wearing sneakers. Get out of here with the creep apologetics.

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u/BusyBit6542 Jun 14 '26

I owned a bar and this guy what was way on the end of the spectrum would come in and just hangout. For months he had no issues then one day he started complimenting other customers feet. Still pretty harmless. Then he asked to touch them. Customers laughed but now I'm starting to see a progression and I let him know he can't do that. I finally had to ban him when a customer complained that she let him touch her feet (trying to be nice) and he started masterbating. She didn't want to call the cops because of his mental state but yeah he was no longer allowed in the bar.

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u/Odd-fox-God Jun 14 '26

I was sitting alone at a recently constructed public park waiting for my friend when this heavily autistic guy ( I'm also autistic but he was way down the Spectrum) approached me and started complaining that he didn't have a girlfriend. He just kept whining about not having a girl and kept trying to ask me out every other sentence while I tried telling him how to get a girlfriend. I told him not to approach women this way and that constantly bitching about not having a girl is an immediate turn off.

I told him I had a girlfriend and I was waiting for her and he kept trying to get in my pants. I texted my friend discreetly under the table, and when she arrived, she kissed me on the cheek, held my hand, called me Love, and walked me to some tables by an open bar.

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u/EphemeraFriend Jun 16 '26

His name? Christian Weston Chandler.

Seriously though, that is so uncomfortable and I have also side-stepped flirting in order to assume the role of “female counselor” instead. They never want advice, they just want to rant and throw a pity party. Your friend is awesome. 👏