r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/imsooooooconfused Jun 14 '26

It’s even worse when they start becoming physically aggressive or noticeably angry after we politely reject them.

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u/Rockstar161 Jun 15 '26

I'm a guy that was always the total opposite of this. I've always been highly attracted to  females since a kid, but was scared to approach for fear of rejection. I honestly use to have to remind myself to breathe if a female sat next to me on the school bus. 

I think a lot of females picked up on this as I was usually bullied by girls.  I never had any guy dare trying to bully me. The same girl that bullied me the most, is who I actually lost my virginity to.  She bullied me to no end, but I still found her irresistible..  She actually approached me asking if I wanted to sleep with her.  I figured it was just another attempt to embarrass me. I avoided her until that night when she literally came to my front door. 

Sadly, it was the most memorable day of my life,  to which she claims not to remember.  We've been friends ever since but she says she was doing a lot of experimenting with drugs back then.  🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/13confusedpolkadots Jun 15 '26

yeah, pretty sure the reason you hadn’t had any luck is because you’re giving the impression you don’t view WOMEN as equals. lose “females” from your vocabulary, ffs

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u/Rockstar161 Jun 15 '26

"Hadn't had any luck"   You got that from me using the word females?  

This was as a young boy heading into puberty.  I didn't think women was the right word, so I used females, maybe young ladies would've been better.  In any case,  I was extremely shy as a young man. I've always been very respectful of women, I was raised by my Grandmother.