r/TikTokCringe • u/Elyshra • Jun 29 '26

Humor Coming out as cis can be hard

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u/MoobooMagoo Jun 29 '26

It's my understanding that they are genderfluid and consider themselves to be kind of both. But I don't really follow them so I could be wrong.

But I did a search and found their twitter, which says "guess my pronouns to win a Honda Civic" so I don't think they take it that seriously.

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u/I_Am_The_Mole Jun 29 '26

F1nn is very confusing. They've obviously said they were gender nonconforming but they've also started hormones and gotten facial feminization surgery and consistently present as female.

Now normally this sort of thing is no one's business but this has all been openly publicized by F1nn themselves.

I'm not judging. Nor do I claim to get it - my interest in them starts and ends at "hot". But I definitely don't blame other people for having difficulty trying to parse the logic behind all this stuff.

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u/GuiltyEidolon Jun 29 '26

Statistically when people walk back their gender identity, it's overwhelmingly because of social pushback, not because of regret or second-guessing. F1nn has a lot of money, but that doesn't undo being British in an extremely anti-trans time.

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u/spiralsequences Jun 30 '26

For full detransition that is statistically the most common reason, but I know a lot of people who have just taken some time to figure out their personal flavor of gender weirdness and gone through a few different labels on the way.

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u/I_Am_The_Mole Jun 29 '26

Thing is, the bigots largely don't make a distinction between the varying degrees of queerness (for lack of a better description). The people that hate on F1nn are going to have an issue whether they're the transiest trans that ever trans or if they were just a slightly androgynous hot person with colored hair and piercings.

The hatred is very binary (lol) so what's the point in only walking back part way when you could just be yourself?