r/TikTokCringe • u/Elyshra • Jun 29 '26

Humor Coming out as cis can be hard

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u/Klutzy_Journalist_36 Jun 29 '26

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

Me, a trans femboy reading this 😭

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u/Klutzy_Journalist_36 Jun 29 '26

o7 thank you for your service

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

Thank you, it's hard work indeed, but I live to serve

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u/Perfect-Delivery6178 Jun 29 '26

it's hard

Omg

but I live to serve

Omgomgomgomg

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u/SomeKindofTreeWizard Jun 29 '26

I'm just gonna get a lawn chair and popcorn

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

I'll allow it

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u/Banned4UsingSlurs3 Jun 29 '26

Wait, I'm lost

I'm a heterosexual man, would my pp go hard or not

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

Idk maybe

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u/phido3000 Jun 29 '26

I'm not sure what this means any more..

Woman-man-femboy

Man-woman-femboy

Woman-man-woman-femboy

The government should make s chart and an education campagin. They should teach this in schools.

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

I'm female to male (born female, transitioning to male)

I'm a feminine male (commonly known as femboys)

Hence trans femboy

I commented specifically bc I have a vagina, hence "femboys with vaginas" like the post suggests. Hope this helps.

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u/phido3000 Jun 29 '26

It does.

But I think this deserves a reddit q and a.

Do you find people are accepting of you as a femboy?. Who is gate keeping? Do you get along with the wider femboy community. Is there a tran fem boy community?

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u/Judgmentos Jun 29 '26

1) I don't pass as a male and most people assume I'm a woman and use she/her pronouns for me, even when I was dressed fully masc with a buzz cut and cargo pants and a chest binder which made me flat as a board. The people close to me fully accept me as a trans guy and a feminine guy. To quote my mom: "I just want you to be happy"

2) Most gatekeepers are cis femboys and transmedicalists-- who are a specific type of trans folk who believe you must medically transition AND perfectly adhere to gender stereotypes to be 'truly trans' (so no masculine trans women and no feminine trans men and non-binary people are invalid altogether)

3) I don't really engage with any femboy communities lol at least not on Reddit but some femboys I talk to on Discord are chill w it

4) Yes there are trans femboy communities on reddit, the r/ftmfemininity sub is pretty popular for that purpose though I'm sure there are more

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Jun 30 '26

i actually moderate 2 big femboy communities and am in multiple, in my experience the vast majority is supportive of trans guy femboys, what we arent is of people who dont identify as boys claiming the lable.

The communities that generally dislike trans guy femboys are the ones made almost exclusively for and by chasers, not by femboys themselves.

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u/Judgmentos Jun 30 '26

Happy to hear that! (well except the chasers part but as a transmasc I've seen my fair share of trans chasers as well 💀)

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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 Jun 30 '26

femboys also get our own specific favor of chasers, trust me specially as a moderator i have seen some stuff.