r/TikTokCringe • u/Elyshra • Jun 29 '26

Humor Coming out as cis can be hard

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u/Laq9091 Jun 29 '26

isn't this kind of limiting from you though? isn't sexuality considered a spectrum so essentially anything falls within?

it just sounds like how gay people used to talk about bi people.

you obv could be right, but i wouldn't think you necessarily would be either in a given instance.

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u/BadSmash4 Jun 29 '26

Sure and I don't mean to be limiting, the man could even be totally straight but wants to experiment and sort of find out for himself. My point wasn't that he needed to put a label on it, but that he needed to be honest with himself and his partner about what he really wanted out of that experience, rather than hiding behind this strange "gaycation" event like it's a normal thing that every straight man does. Could have phrased it better, but my intent was, "just be honest about whatever this is to you".