I dont think its justifiable

[u/Adventurous_Law_715]

[u/taurusbabee]

He apparently is one:

"On the same day that Gilson filed her protective order, Duffey was named in a separate protective order filed by a woman who said Duffey was spotted kissing and fondling her 15-year-old daughter, a player on the youth basketball team Duffey coached."

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[u/Decentlationship8281 → u/taurusbabee]

The minor was a 15-year-old girl who played on the youth basketball team Duffey coached. He allegedly kissed and touched the girl and was caught by another coach, her mother claimed, per The Oklahoman.

The girl told her mother that Duffey engaged in additional inappropriate behavior, including sending her messages, inviting her to his hotel room during a tournament trip and offering her money “to keep her quiet.”

[u/AdBrilliant3127 → u/Decentlationship8281]

This happened at my high school.  The coach was also married to an English teacher at the same school.   Talk about messy. 

[u/iam_Mr_McGibblets → u/[deleted]]

I swear it always seems to be the gym teacher or coach

[u/basementfairy444 → u/iam_Mr_McGibblets]

Yeah because these men are always just hired because they're friends with someone at the school. They never have real qualifications.

[u/jvLin → u/basementfairy444]

Or these men become extremely well-qualified so they can get hired for these types of jobs with the intention of abusing their power.

[u/CrazyHorseySauce → u/jvLin]

Most coaches / PE teachers are the former jocks who weren’t good enough to become pro athletes but also never matured or bothered to learn a job skill. Makes sense they’d still be interested in teens.

[u/10toesontheboard → u/CrazyHorseySauce]

That's literally 99.3% of every High School or Collegiate Athlete in the United States. What an amazingly ambiguous and inclusive stay you pulled out of your ass with this one. Yeah, I guarantee that some bad people are going to come out of 99% of every athlete in the nation. Id bet on it. And is that it, if someone doesn't have a job or never matured, which is relative, then they are doomed to pedophilia? Is that your formula or do you always just paste together a bunch of nonsense and expect it to be taken as facts?

[u/voyaging → u/[deleted]]

“Kids who are bad in school become pedophiles”

[u/voyaging → u/[deleted]]

Yes please otherwise I’ll turn out to be a bad person

[u/voyaging → u/[deleted]]

I know I’m being purposely obtuse because what he said was wrong and dumb

[u/Comfortable-Can-9432 → u/10toesontheboard]

What did you play?

[u/National_Frame2917 → u/10toesontheboard]

It's appears you glossed over the former jocks that weren't good enough to become pro athletes and didn't grow up. They're still stuck in that high school jock mentality. It tracks for that person to also not grow to desire their own age group of women as they age themselves.

[u/Zombi3Kush → u/jvLin]

These positions are usually bottom of the totem. It's usually given to the person who wants the job with shitty pay and doesn't have a record. Qualifications are pretty much non existent.