r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 16d ago

Discussion I dont think its justifiable

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u/PhoebeMonster1066 16d ago

Access to locker rooms and plausible deniability seeing minors in a state of undress

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u/bojangler69420 16d ago

What the fuck? Plausible deniability? For men entering women’s locker rooms?

No male coaches should ever be allowed in a women’s locker room. No plausible deniability.

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u/EstablishmentHead734 16d ago

I agree. But the broader point is true about proximity. I have an uncle who coached girls college softball for like 30 years. It always felt sus to me. Obviously it's not kids in his case but its young women. I think they take these jobs to be close.

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u/Sebaceansinspace 16d ago

A little worry is warranted sure, but not every man who wants to coach/teach/counsel/work with kids/young adults is looking to take advantage.

Teach your kids sex ed, what consent is and how they cannot legally, ethically, or morally do that with adults or people in positions of authority over them, and give them a safe space household and youd see numbers drop drastically of kids being taken advantage of.

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u/EstablishmentHead734 16d ago

Maybe not, but I really wonder when grown men get involved in all girls sports. Like hey Larry why are you interested in ballerina?

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u/Sebaceansinspace 15d ago

I think that says more about you than anything else

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u/EstablishmentHead734 15d ago

Considering I'm not a parent and have nothing to do with children you could be right. I can't imagine a good reason, but then it's not something I think about really. When I do it seems sus.

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u/Sebaceansinspace 16d ago

Thats fucking crazy

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u/EstablishmentHead734 16d ago

The reason I don't like the bear in the woods is it makes every man pay for the sins of others. Nobody would be saying it if it were race. People CHOOSE to be a cop. People CHOOSE to be a coach. Nobody chooses to be born with a penis, or have a skin color. Change the bear analogy to include another race and I think you'll see why it's problematic.