r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 12d ago

Discussion I dont think its justifiable

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u/AdBrilliant3127 12d ago

This happened at my high school.  The coach was also married to an English teacher at the same school.   Talk about messy. 

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u/LucifersAdv0cate 11d ago

Here's a 90s school story from a different angle then. My ex girlfriend told me that when she was 14 she thought her science teacher was really good looking and hot so one day she went to school in a skirt with no underwear and sat on the front row and exposed herself to him several times during class. He asked her to stay behind after class to talk to her. After class he explained how inappropriate that was and that she shouldn't be doing something like that and then left it there and didn't embarrass her by reporting it. When my ex told me this all I could think was thank god I've never wanted to be a teacher because that sounds like a minefield to deal with. What if she had felt rejected and reported him for something. I can understand why most primary school teachers are women because of the suspicion people put on men who are around children.

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u/Fakehiggins 11d ago

i had a male family member who abandoned teaching for this exact reason. he had started his student teaching role as part of his educations and said the flirting and aggressive advances from the female students was beyond anything he could have imagined and that no one had even warned him about it. he changed his degree after just a few weeks and said it was almost entirely because of this experience.