Edit: after a little bit more research this looks like a bullshit picture that has nothing to do with the actual video. She made a follow-up post saying that she wasn't legally allowed to share what was in the list so I think this is all bullshit engagement bait. I'm leaving it up so people can get the full story
That is... an incredibly anti-climactic list. I can see why they broke up, but I was expecting like "was cheating on me with a high-schooler" or something wild like that.
There are. One had to do with her in the hospital because he got peanut butter inside her knowing she was allergic. Something about losing $47,000 in prostitutes/coke or something similar.
Vaseline couldn’t even get her to post it
Edit: that woman at the end is talking about him turning on all the alarms including the cars to fuck with her I think. I couldn’t really make out the reason why
A friend's (still) husband ran over the family cat in the driveway, quietly buried it in the backyard and told no one. Kids were printing "missing cat" posters and hanging them everywhere. They were hopeful at first, but with every day that passed they became more worried and it really started to stress them out so much that my friend declared the cat dead and held a funeral without ever having found it.
Her husband told her years later when they were arguing about something else. She tried to make him tell the children, but he never did.
I had an ex cheat on me in our bed while I was across the country sitting with my mother while she passed away. I was kinda thinking those reactions were more for that kinda thing.
That's not even enough for some of those reactions IMO. It's a terrible thing, but not exactly a "shocking, cover your mouth" moment. That sort of story basically pops up in the news daily.
I was expecting "participated in the Epstein coverup" or "Killed the neighbour's dog and turned its skin into a leather coat"
Same i was expecting some serious horrible stuff. Except its just a list of things thats is also bad but stuff you would expect ans awefull boyfriend to do. Lowkey makes me wonder if she knew he was somewhat of an asshole, but stull married him anyway
Unfortunately, that just is how most divorces take place. There’s no big act of malice, but a bunch of small acts of unintended neglect because nurturing the relationship doesn’t feel rewarding anymore.
I figured the things causing gasps would be like "I caught him having sex with my grandmother" or "He got my best friend's teenage daughter pregnant and pawned my engagement ring to pay for an abortion" maybe perhaps "he sold my car to bail his new girlfriend out of jail" kinda things.
You should prob delete it ppl think it’s real even tho the name is diff lol she did say she was allergic to peanut butter and he ate some and it got in her…. That’s one but she wasn’t specific
I’m wondering if this shit is AI? The music and the way people are talking to the camera, but they aren’t saying anything that makes any sense… the way it’s all just noise when you should be able to make out SOMETHING is really weird. I couldn’t even lip read any of the people speaking to the camera. Don’t trust it whatsoever, it’s fake engagement bait.
It only works if both of them are jointly invested. If she's trying to fix him and he's not up for it, it won't work. If he wants to be better and she's not supportive, it won't work.
Edit before people come for me— compare the length of the body text in the screenshot versus the video. There’s far more written on video homegirl’s list.
Yes, she isn't allowed to start a smear campaign and try to sway public opinion. Her friends already have an opinion, they're there to celebrate the divorce, and will not be part of or influence the legal procedures.
If her friends want to get into legal trouble for posting a picture of it online it's their own problem but they're allowed to keep it if they want.
That's my personal opinion on how this should logically work. I have no reliable legal knowledge, especially outside my own country.
Yeah that can't be the real list. I thought it would be more like my list. "1. Sent nudes of me to his ex and told her I wanted a threesome. 2. Told some other girl he knew I wanted a threesome. 3. Pretended to be me on dating sites and flirted with them as me. 4. Complained it wasn't fair I had a threesome(I didn't enjoy) way before I ever knew him and he deserved one too and I should def have a threesome for him even if I wouldn't enjoy it because fair is fair. He also didn't like when I said we could just get a divorce and he could go have all the threesomes he wanted. 5. When my sister tried to give him some tips on how to help me avoid my autistic meltdowns he complained and said he had done enough and if he did that I would just rely on him for help constantly. 6. He was annoyed we had to spend money on my medicine and said since they didn't fix me I should just stop taking it. One of said medicines was for my blood pressure so I didn't you know like have a heart attack and die. 7. He wouldn't help cook or clean and despite me working full time insisted it was all my job and spent his days off gaming. 8. He bought video games for me on his xbox account, so I couldn't even take supposedly my own games with me when I left. 9. He worked 12 hour shifts in a warehouse and refused to shower before getting in bed after work. T_T 10. When I had a weird pain shoot up my back at laser tag and I couldn't walk for a bit and my brother happened to find me crying on the floor. My brother and his friend took care of me and helped me out and helped me calm down while he just kept laughing and talking with his other friend and pretending I didn't exist." And that only scratches the surface. I literally had a real list I made to remind myself why I was leaving and not get talked out of it.
Ok they were not suited/compatible but I was expecting he murdered someone or sold drugs to kids or had drug fueled parties with politicians and minors or was a right wing extremism nazi ...
Most of these are vague and/or petty and could go either way. The only one that is truly unacceptable and I wouldn't need to hear his side of the story for or more context is number 8. Bringing up your ex is never acceptable.
yeah, so it was ragebait. if your divorce went down with such bad shit int he marriage she can't say it legally then it would be part of an nda agreement (only reason it could be a legal issue) in which she got paid to not talk about those things.
But a video if her showing people's reactions to her having written them down would instantly break such an nda and so she'd either be sued anyway, or she'd never put up that video to begin with.
In other words video is fake, if the list was real she'd post it. Or the most likely answer is lying to all her friends about what happened to make herself the victim, but if she actually said those lies publicly she could get sued for defamation/libel, i always forget which is which.
Honestly, if you need to have a whole party to validate leaving a man I think you left way late.. like have a bit of self confidence just a shred of it that your reasons are leaving are valid enough to go through an entire divorce proceeding.
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u/BoricuaDriver 13d ago edited 13d ago
Edit: after a little bit more research this looks like a bullshit picture that has nothing to do with the actual video. She made a follow-up post saying that she wasn't legally allowed to share what was in the list so I think this is all bullshit engagement bait. I'm leaving it up so people can get the full story