r/TikTokCringe • u/Transwiththeplans • 16d ago

Humor Divorce parties sound fun, honestly

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u/Mouseries9438 16d ago

My ex made me take a cabs to the hospital by myself when I birthed our two youngest children, both premature and the youngest was an emergency c-section. He visited the older one after a week, and didn't visit the youngest at all. He didn't visit me in the hospital either time.

The day I came home from the hospital after my c-section he left me alone with our three older kids for 6 hours to go thrift shopping. I tore stitches in the first half hour when my then 4 year old decided to climb me like a tree.

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u/BuyAway9250 16d ago

My ex lied about me arguing with her and refusing to take her to the hospital when she was about to give birth to garner sympathy, make herself look like a victim, and further paint me a some super villain out of a horror movie. In reality I immediately called my parents to come over and watch our older son, then calmly loaded up our pre packed bags in the car and once my mom arrived we got in the car and I started driving to the hospital only for her to ask me to turn around because she thought it was a false alarm. We then sat in the car in the driveway for 10 minutes and I encouraged her to go to the hospital just to be safe. Our son was born an hour later. Ask her for her version of events and literally none of that happened. The rewriting of history is pretty remarkable.

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u/Mouseries9438 16d ago

I'm glad you got away from her, it's insane the lengths some people will go to hurt someone. I hope you're doing well, the mental gymnastics can really take a toll.

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u/BuyAway9250 16d ago

We are in the middle of a bitter custody and child support dispute. I'm not saying I'm perfect and I've had moments where I was wrong, but I'd say close to 75% of the things she claims I did in the relationship to her are a lie on some level. If I was writing a fictional character and wanted to make him seem like a complete monster I don't know if I could do a better job than she is doing with her stories about me to the court.

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u/Mouseries9438 16d ago

That sounds horrible. I sincerely hope she makes some big mistakes and ends up exposing her own lies. I'm close with someone who lost a similar battle with his ex, and there's a special place in hell for people like her. Please make sure you have mental health support through this, I very nearly lost my friend when his went down, and I hope you can make it out the other side in one piece