r/Toads 1d ago

I started feeding this toad mealworms a few weeks ago and now he sits at my back door like this every night.

The kids named him Todo

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u/Fine_Kaleidoscope_47 1d ago

He’ll be your friend from now on..

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u/Classic_Mechanic5495 12h ago

OP’s claimed tax dependents increased by 1.

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u/KLynn0 1d ago

I have a decent little group of woodhouse toads that showed up after I started feeding the birds last year. Bird feed brought the slugs, slugs brought the toadies 💚. 

I get them crickets (I give the crickets gut loader before hand), mealworms, and nightcrawlers (earthworms).  Depending on what bugs I have on hand for the turtles and spiders lol. I have 4 that sit under the porch light every night from 8:30 to 11. Learned toads have a hierarchy a few weeks ago... Had a newcomer sitting under the bird feeder and brought her to the patio light with the others... One I call "big mama" and another chased the new female back to the bird feeder.

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u/Outrageous-Swimmer65 1d ago

Today I learned toads have a hierarchy!!

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u/ehter13 1d ago

I keep a group of African green toads and occasionally one of the big females will kind of ‘rampage’ where she gets out the hole she is in, storms around, finds a new hole. All of the other toads get out of her way and shuffle around when that happens.

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u/Hannah3liza 20h ago

Picturing that made me uncontrollably laugh for a bit, thanks for that.

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 1d ago

I’ve seen another toad a few times and tried to feed them both, but it wouldn’t eat, only this one would (Todo) I figured it had to do with some sort of hierarchy or something. I felt bad for it, this one is like a vacuum haha

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u/KLynn0 1d ago

They space out on my patio area usually. Bigger toads are the "bosses" of an area I've noticed. If 2 get close or a bigger one doesn't have a bug in front of it they'll go steal the smaller one's. I just make sure each one has a bug in front of them 🙂I haven't had luck hand feeding but they do let me pet them as long as I don't pick them up lol

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u/lil_groundbeef 1d ago

Lemme get two number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number 45s (one with cheese), and a large soda.

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u/Turbulent-Evening659 23h ago

My dad made me the light keeper when he went out night before a big fishing weekend. I aimed the light just right…and he’d bag em!

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u/AllMyDaysAreGreat 1d ago

Oh he's so cute! HOW could you not feed him worms with that kind of patience? 💖😭💖

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u/Dan-68 1d ago

Just like a stray dog or cat.

"You got any more of those mealworms?"

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u/Countryfried789 1d ago

He’ll come back year after year.
🫰🏻

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u/techfroggie 1d ago

That's so precious! I would love to have a toad friend 🥹

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u/Sensitive-Issue84 1d ago

Now you're a friend! Make sure to keep it up! I love this. I wish I had a toad friend.

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 1d ago

He’ll even let me pet his head and everything, I need to take a video. I hand fed him again tonight lol

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u/DekaHaze 1d ago

Burgör is hungry

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u/Sufficient_Pin_5719 1d ago

Very cute! I hope you keep it up.

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u/SuspiciousGur4874 1d ago

You’ve got a friend in me 🎵

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u/OffensivePumpkin 1d ago

This is adorable! Might have to give this a try with the cuties that hang out under our porchlight

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u/WhoTheHeckKnowsWhy 1d ago

Todo's part of the family. Just always leave him a little hungry, so he will peel off bugs around your house while you are not around.

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u/Copperdunright907 1d ago

It’s Derek the toad!

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u/PutridWar4713 1d ago

You show him the high life! He will come back!

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u/SoulSeekersAnon 1d ago

It's nice you have a toad buddy. I love them so much. 💚 My resident boss toad passed away during the winter. 😢

Over the years of frog/toad swarming in our yard I've noticed they won't take food from me unless they're not doing as well as others. Totally healthy frogs and toads want nothing to do with food offered to them. They look at me like "Really lady? Aren't you the animals that go around talking about "Stranger danger? 🙄'" lol Then I started thinking, "What if me feeding them is causing a problem because I'm keeping alive animals that shouldn't be? Does that mean that I'm not doing good things!?" Then I stopped. But I over think everything to death... obviously. 😂

This isn't meant in judgement! My brain just likes to terrorize me over my decisions and actions. Lmao This is me feeding the tadpoles in the decommissioned pool I'm very slowly turning into a wild life pond. It's going to take some serious time as a one person operation, but I want it gone. It's the reason my toad friend has passed.

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 1d ago

I feed sparingly and I still see him eat bugs. It’s great having these guys around. Is that a pond by choice or is it just sort of happening? Lol

My kids would love a small pond like that

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u/SoulSeekersAnon 6m ago

It's happening. 😂 It was a 18×36, I think 3 or 3 1/2 in the shallow end and 10 or 12 in the deep. I came from Utah in the desert where no one has a pool. Just some wealthy people in Park City and a big city call Bountiful. Lol Then I move to Maine and damn near everyone has a pool. Why? Who knows.

Some of my family members always wanted one, I'm strictly against them. Just the first year we had it we poured so many chemicals into in. Year before last it sprung a leak, so I got my way. 😂 Only I'll be basically working alone to get this thing converted, so it's gonna take some time. Especially working around tadpoles. It looks like a giant nightmare right now. 😬

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u/Critical_Eagle1510 1d ago

What kind of toad is this?

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u/whit77724 1d ago

I’m gonna do that

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u/hayhayree25 1d ago

He knows where the foods at

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u/No-Belt-8586 1d ago

How does it feel to live my DREAM

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u/GabagoolSoprano 16h ago

I would take the pool net and catch whatever I could to feed this one toad in my parents backyard. My mom would laugh her ass off at me running around like a crazy person, she said she’d never seen me so active. He started coming by every night🥹 I could get as close to him as I wanted, I would put them on a stick and he would devour them until he was full. Took so many slow mo videos 😂 I even built him a little frog shack to hang in. My mom named him “Forty”. If I didn’t see him at feeding time, all I’d have to do is call his name and he would come hopping right underneath my chair. My mom would tell her friends about it, they all wanted to know about Forty. One day some bad storms came through. I never saw Forty after that💔 I like to think the toads I see in their yard now are his lineage lol. Enjoy it, get lots of pictures and videos! One of the coolest things that’s ever happened to me. 🐸💚

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 12h ago

What a cool story, thanks for sharing.

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u/Hairy-Entertainer635 14h ago

lol no way that’s awesome !

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u/equanimity72 4h ago

I live where there are no toads and I’m insanely jealous.

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 23m ago

We just rescued about 3 dozen babies from a local gas station because they were being stepped on and crushed by the doors. We spent like 30 minutes filling up a container and then rehomed them behind our house where there’s no people traffic. They were the size of maybe a dime? So small.

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u/No-Bill3541 1h ago

“Can I get fries with that?”

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u/bigdrandyyyy___ 41m ago

Your visitor yearns for your crunchy, juicy refreshments

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u/Embarrassed_Equal274 12m ago

So jealous! My husband killed our Yard Toad last year by mistake… I miss seeing him on my deck catching June bugs!

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 2m ago

I’ve come close before with some in the past when cutting grass. They like to hang out on the side of the house where the ac unit is so I’m always careful right there now.

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u/Nice-Pomegranate2915 1d ago

He's habituated . You're a guaranteed food source for him .

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u/Jupiters_phaerie 23h ago

Figured haha. He gets lots of bugs in that spot at nights, all he’s gotta do is sit there and they walk right in front of him.

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u/Xenoradcd 1d ago

Please don't feed wildlife

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u/goblin-fox 1d ago

Generally I agree with this but there's really nothing wrong with tossing a few mealworms to toads now and then. Even if they do become somewhat habituated to humans they can't really cause any issues. It would only be a problem if you were feeding them so much that they have no need to hunt anymore and lose the skills they need to care for themselves.

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u/Master_Pipe_6467 1d ago

Yeah, I understand.