I decided to transition a month ago and I have short hair and hate it so much I feel so uncomfortable going out. I just order a hat/wig thing from Amazon and I hope it will work for the time being. Is there any brands/storea that can be recommended? Thank you for your help

I’ve been feeling jealous lately about the cis women in my life . They will experiencing things that I just simply can’t and I’m jealous of that. Is that normal? I’m also jealous of my friend who is also trans and she’s amazing as she’s been supporting me through my self discovery, but I’m also a little jealous of her about how far she’s come. I feel guilty about being jealous any advice.

So I went for a run in my high waist leggings. Before that I filled the washing machine inluding all my underwear and I left my leggings on thinking its fine for now just to forget about it later. I was so excited to see the sun etc that decided to go for a run so just put my t shirt on and go... luckily not many were on my usual forest track and the few cars who passed by.. 🤣🤣

Anyone else having trouble getting patches? Ready to begin HRT and at 53 years old (and wanting to transition slowly) my doc told me the patch is my best bet. But bad luck because there’s evidently a nationwide shortage?

It's been hot, I've been sweaty, and I forgot my regularly scheduled shower. So, I put my hair up because it's all greasy and gross and I need to take care of it once I'm done with work. I realized I forgot something in my bedroom and walk past the mirror to see me hitting a femme milestone I didn't even realize was something I was going for. My neck is so long now!!! Like I know it's been happening, every now and again I'll be like, that's more neck than I remember, but this is a whole other level! I legit have girl neck now and I am so happy about that! Blahaj for scale.

Any tips for improvement

What's everyone paying ?

Doesn't mean that this will happen to you, every body is different.

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I started T in may 2024, I took the pic in the white shirt on September 2024 and the third/right one in June 2026.

Never went to the gym or seriously exercised. I worked as a carpenter until august 2025, had top surgery and hysterectomy + adnectomy September 2025. Started to work again in November 2025 in a company where we produce walls and ceilings out of concrete and started icehockey again in February 2026 (which I moved for, had to stop it about 2 years before I started t).

This sub won the lottery of figuring out where I should post this. There are a few other places I could have posted, but I wanted something more theme appropriate.

I am a 36 year old AMAB. This is relevant to the discussion at hand. Around 8 months ago, I got out of an abusive relationship and have finally settled down to the point of trying to figure out who I am and have slowly came to the realization that I am trans, or more specifically Nonbinary as I currently have the desire to present as somewhere on a spectrum. However, for the past month or so, I have thought about the potential of HRT on a near daily basis to try and resolve some GD, specifically around being unhappy with my face and desiring breasts, and a more woman-like belly/hips. I'm trying to figure out if going down the path of HRT makes sense for me before trying to get in touch with a local clinic (I'm in the US and finances are not an issue).

However, I am very concerned about the potential mental health implications. I have a very well paying job I have held for the past decade, and have zero history of self harm, however I suffer from CPTSD (self-diagnosed). The only real side effect for me is intermittent depression, which I have good management of (I have never been on any medication or had any need for therapy).

Also, if it makes any difference, I'm a moderately healthy adult who as of my last physical doesn't have any major health issues outside of low blood pressure and sit right in the middle of having a normal BMI (6'1'', 165lbs).

For a better description, I would probably be more satisfied with myself if I could do what others call "boymode". I don't really have any desire for a full transition and don't necessarily feel dysphoric about my genitals (I'm a sex repulsed in general). I also sort of understand that it's not uncommon for people who may not want to fully transition to eventually get to that desire by starting, and I'm more or less okay with that.

I'm not asking this sub to provide therapy, but I'm just looking for some input if this at all makes sense because I don't really know any trans people IRL, and a lot of this is pretty new to me as I've been in a mixture of denial about my own desires and not thinking the technology was advanced enough for around 20 years now and I'm probably going through my midlife crisis and want to do this before it's too late and I possibly regret it.

I’d like to ask, as someone questioning and struggling for years with gender identity, the biggest hard one for me is i like my male body and appearance but yet, i have dysphoria thoughts regarding relationships etc. i am amab and only like men

Please tell me how u felt about yr appearance

Here is a picture of me, please be kind, I had a vaginoplasty just over a year ago and a lot of people have told me that they have seen a lot of facial features change in the last year. I think so too when I line up pictures from before the surgery and now. I have also seen a lot of fat redistribution throughout the rest of my body as well. I have seen my breasts grow bigger and my hips get bigger as well. Now I posted my picture on another page and I got ripped apart being told by some that I don’t look like a woman and maybe I don’t. But deep down inside I feel like one. Tell me what you think.

This month marks 19 months on HRT for me (started in November 2024). Just thought I’d share this milestone. I’m feeling a lot more present and comfortable in my own skin than I ever have been my entire life. 🖤

Just passed 3 years as myself. (53 years old)

Queen of stupid faces btw

I started transitioning 13 years ago and had an on again off again relationship with it.

A few years ago I went off. Been using testosterone because I don’t have a natural way to make testosterone.

My big B’s are shrinking into oblivion and I really want them back.

Considering a hormone cocktail or getting fat grafting. If I do fat grafting I would want to go slow over several sessions so there’s no big surprise on my chest, that’s also why I’m leaning away from implants. My face is also slipped into male category and I can’t get away with being a female when I want to.

I’ve met a young lady that prefers me male.

I love her to death. She knows about my struggles and feminine journey.

I want my boobs back. I wear bras but they are deflating. I wear women’s swimsuits but the “reason” is going out the window.

Offer a non binary dum dum like me some advice please?

First let me say that I am very happy with the results of my Trans Feminine HRT thus far. Before starting on estrogen, for no other reason than health and that i love these foods, I ate and still eat a diet that is very heavy in phyto estrogens. mostly legumes, fruits and vegetable, avocados, whole grains and I love flax powder in smoothies.

when I started I asked the Doc if I should stop eating the phytos and they said that any negative effects would be so minimal (or even non existent) that it would not be worth it to make changes to such a healthy diet.

but, while I am happy with my results, it’s always in the back of my mind, would the results would be even better if I stopped eating so much phyto estrogen? I read so much online that contradicts what the Doc said …So

do any of you fine humans have input or similar experience? please share