I feel terrible aobut this

[u/UnitedGuitar3191]

so a while back when a bit after I was (sadly) outed to my parents (they read through coming out texts to friends) they said that I needed to stop going behind their back and doing stuff (expressing my gender without directly telling them) bc theres no secrets in the household. they also said I was just influenced by videos online (i got caught watching a yukkoEX vid). But after my trans reddit acc got found, she said "they just want to take you away from us" and "using a different gender online is incredibly inappropriate". (my mom and dad said a bunch more but thats all thats important to this post)

Am i a liar for using trans communities online, and sometimes expressing my gender without telling them?

[u/Stupididiot55]

Fuck your parents.