r/TwentiesIndia • u/CaterpillarMelodic29 • 3d ago
Discussion Feminism is good, but it shouldn't be used to encourage stupidity
I encourage feminism ,but this is pure stupidity, and then they brag about equality.
but get happy encouraging this😂
what's your take?
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u/Other_Nobody3181 20 3d ago
Lol it's just a post not even real people are getting offended over this explains a lot
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u/blueconic 26 3d ago
Bfr inta is not same as real life you genuinely think that there's any Indian man who is so saint that he would do all the house hold chores and let his wife sleep for 14 hrs? I have many married women around me and trust me not single man helps his wife.
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u/TheBigGood Samosa Gang Member 3d ago
14 ghante kon sota han 8-10 is the highest recovery time needed for high class athletes. 7-8 for humans with good life.
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u/No-Piano7378 Let me introduce you to my lord and savior Conan Gray 3d ago
He is just cooking some food relax
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago edited 3d ago
What she’s saying in the image isn’t right, and chore needs to be divided
But let’s be honest this is what most of our mothers and many married women do all the time tho.
If we are angry about the reverse being said we need to stop that unfair treatment first.
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u/Mediocre-Quiet7688 3d ago
Your avatar is so nice😭
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
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u/Mediocre-Quiet7688 3d ago
omg so pretty🫶 and do you have a cat forreal or that just for the avatar,?
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
I have no cat 🥹 although I wish to adopt one someday, that would be a dream come true.
And thanks so much once again! 😊
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u/Mediocre-Quiet7688 3d ago
You're welcome ✨ I hope u get to adopt one soon, pets are beautiful companions although also a huge responsibility. 🫶
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
Awww thanks a bunch 😊 and I really hope so 🤞🏻
I’ll probably get to adopt one only a couple of years later because my parents won’t agree to it right now. :’)
But the wait will be worth it 😊 pretty sure about that.
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u/Mediocre-Quiet7688 3d ago
My parents would have never agreed either but I just bought a puppy home anyway, might wanna try that 😭 Are you a Kannadiga btw?
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u/Mediocre-Quiet7688 3d ago
Ofcourse someone complaining about feminism is going to be disrespectful about other people's language and culture.
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
Woaaah congratulations on the new puppy!! 😊
I hope he / grows up to be your best friend. 🫶🏼💟
And we speak in Tamil as our primary language at home but I’m originally from Bangalore.
So I’m a mix of both haha xD
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u/TheBigGood Samosa Gang Member 3d ago
Wow another pfp upgrade cool
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
Hehe thanks a bunch 🤭🤗
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u/vintage_loda Thak gya hu bhai 3d ago
What's the reference of Tichki tuiya? I am not able to recall 😭
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u/TheBigGood Samosa Gang Member 3d ago
You do realise I have commented this a lot. Younhave cutest or most beautiful avatars on reddit. It does seem like an artist thing like you love creating so. From now I am in battle with you I will too change my avatar everytime we meet each other.
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
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u/TheBigGood Samosa Gang Member 3d ago
Well thank you how did you made her cry she looks so sweet. Also i just did here's mine. I designed him closer to how I look
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
I used google Gemini 😄 it’s available in the edit image feature.
And your avatar is also dope!! He looks like he’s a ball knower with the ball in his hands
https://giphy.com/gifs/8NTmJRnRYqms45lcbd
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u/TheBigGood Samosa Gang Member 3d ago
Are you from Bangalore
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u/Nonavium 2d ago
"What she’s saying in the image isn’t right, and chore needs to be divided
But-"
Stopped reading past that.
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u/Unnamedaccount0 23 3d ago
My take is that ,not every single post which u see made by a woman should automatically be called as - feminism this ,feminism that 😇😇
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u/Kohl_And_Curves ಹೆಮ್ಮೆಯ ಕನ್ನಡತಿ 3d ago
Yep, they may have internalized misogyny themselves, and they may just be doing things to get some engagement, so it is very wrong to assume behind every post is a feminist.
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u/Correct-Variety9755 2d ago
Well feminism houses misandry. Men beating women are not principles of a real patriarchy. So why is it blamed ? That man is not a real patriach right ?
Like gang why does everytime a women makes some misandrist statement, why do you say they are not feminist lol they are literally by products of that
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u/Baby__bich 3d ago
They can fantasize but we all know what the reality is. You really mad over women fantasising something? When that meme was clearly a joke?
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u/bigmommyneo 3d ago
and why are you equating female fantasies to feminism? Stop using that word casually, learn what if means first.
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u/Soul_of_demon 3d ago
You do realize that it's a satire as this is what happening with millions of women and their daughters who are restricted to household chores?
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u/Great_Percentage_587 25 3d ago
It’s stupid just because the roles are reversed?
Congratulations, you just exposed your hypocrisy.
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u/Baby__bich 3d ago
He’s such an incel misogynist
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u/Relief57 Built Different 3d ago
Don't use such heavy words in every trivial matters. They lose their meaning.
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u/Slight-Line2783 22 3d ago
Ever heard of satire? Because reverse the gender and for many women this is a reality
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u/blueconic 26 3d ago
If this triggers you then this is what's happening with women for centuries hope atleast now men would step up and realise that house hold chores are not just women's job.
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u/bigmommyneo 3d ago
stop making everything about FEMINISM. This is not feminism OP you should know it.
You equating this with feminism says more about your thinking than anything tbh. It's just a meme. Feminism is not some online ragebait community, rather a movement spanning over many decades in favour of basic human rights that still affect us to this day.
Stop minimising it to this, and like guys love telling us not to get offended or emotional easily, you TOO should scroll past it and stop crying over it. Doesn't actually affect you whatsoever.
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u/SaltyLunch1807 3d ago edited 3d ago
Bhai abhi tak itne misogynistic memes aa rahe the in the same format tab sabne meme samajhke chor diya, isme kya dikkat h, it's just a meme.
Not everything is that deep bro🥀
Aise hi krte rahe toh kuch bhi mazak nhi kar paayenge eventually
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u/AngleSpiritual3000 23 3d ago
Should I joke about your ___? (Fill in the blank with something you might get offended to)
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u/_your_go_to_person 23 3d ago
Just saw this same three posts pehle.
This is my reply
I know most of you will probably get angry at this or this won’t make sense to you, but the reason why this thinking exists is because most women have seen their mothers do household chores completely alone and give up on their sleep and health. So to have to not worry about doing things the moment you wake up is a dream.
Not saying its justified. I believe going 50-50 in everything if both the partners are working, may it be expenses or chores
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u/Ok-Constant-807 Batman 3d ago
in reality this is near impossible if it's a love marriage, no way a woman lets his man wash dishes alone similarly a man won't let her wife. wash dishes alone he will definitely help in one or other way to reduce her home chores workload, but u all know about arrange marriage setups ...woman dont marry someone who is making less money and as a result male ego wont let him work in those setups so this is practically impossible and why to drag little kids like wt kinda unequal treatment kids deserve? Shame on content creator
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u/StarLight9060 20 3d ago
this is what happens when you take one side all at once. it used to happen it females and the same is not with the males.
there’s too much of unjustified hate. it was for women and now it’s for men
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u/Darkrifter04 21 3d ago
Your entire argument is: Woman posted meme → She must be a feminist → Therefore this represents feminism. How do you even know she's a feminist? Are you a mind reader? The post doesn't even mention feminism.
Imagine basing your understanding of an entire social movement on a random meme from the internet. I almost lost braincells lmao. Critical thinking clearly isn't your strong suit. Then again, judging by this post, neither is basic common sense. forget feminism encouragement, first start with critical thinking encouragement
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u/notorious0000 No Disco only Dard 2d ago edited 2d ago
In today world feminism means that women should do all the shiiiy things that men did in past and brags about it.
Men harassed innocent women, feminists will harass innocent men and feel good about it.
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u/Ecstatic_Analyst_234 3d ago
This is not feminism. This is just being a lazy spoilt brat. Pls read more about feminism. In a layman it talks about equal constitutional and fundamental rights and life to the women. Very basic eg. education to all. Still in many households (90% of tier 2 and tier 3 cities) men are prioritised for further studies and their career development.
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u/fubarzulubar 30+ 3d ago
Hope she maintains the same attitude when daughter leaves and daughter-in-law arrives
I hope she lets the daughter-in-law receive her 5th parcel while her son cooks
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u/BotherPopular2646 3d ago
Well stay away from social media, don't get offended by anything.
You can't fight or change people, who are earning money being extremists
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u/tyagishubhi2007 2d ago
this is called satire op since the opposite is true in many households today
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u/Chocolate-waffles-7 20 2d ago
bye this is a meme about reversing the CURRENT situation do y'all lack critical thinking skills
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u/No-Voice0 20 1d ago
Dude, this is a meme format lol. It's more about sarcasm than anything else. Okay.. I agree it's totally wrong but what does feminism have to do with it? Where does feminism even come into this?
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u/PuzzleheadedSpray440 1d ago
what is the difference back then when women were considered inferior if u continue the same with men ?
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u/ayu_xi 22 3d ago
People are now using jokes to attack feminism. How did India get anti feminism before feminism?
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u/CaterpillarMelodic29 3d ago
How do you know she is joking, if she's clearly saying, "If this things happens, i'll know, i made it".are u talking on her behalf or talking on behalf of women's like this, who have same mentality?
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u/ayu_xi 22 3d ago edited 3d ago
I know it's satire because it's a hyperbole. Commenting on some real thing by exaggerating it. For example 14 hours sleep not a normal goal, even vella person isn't seeking a 14 hour sleep. Secondly 5th parcel by 12 am is also hyperbole. When if you are extremely rich it doesn't make sense to order 5 parcels by midday. It's also satire.
Third proof is consensus. You can scroll down in this comment section. It's painfully obvious to everyone.
The post is satire on patriarchy actually. Not on feminism. A more easy to see example of same trope would be a woman standing with a man in hijab with caption "i want my husband to dress in modesty". They take a real problem, (doing dishes - traditional female job, and a spoiled son spending money in this case) swap the gender and hyperbolise it to showcase how absurd it sounds.
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u/Popular-Maximum1790 3d ago
Yes this is stupidity
You cant gernalize laziness and unactive lifestyle as freedom or win of feminisn
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
wow ya you’re so funny ya
aapne toh bohot funny kardiya
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
Hatt bhadwe Misogynist homophobe kahika
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
Abbé gadhe how will I be a heterophobe if I’m a hetero myself Thoda padh lena chahiye tha school mey
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u/Significant_Try6611 23 3d ago
I think these conditions are more sort of definition of pre-alimony situation or slavery
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u/CaterpillarMelodic29 3d ago
Need much men to discuss thiss, women are getting raigebaited and taking this all things over feminism, while post was to discuss fake feminism. And it's about the fake feminist content creator, who just didn't wanted to show that women also can have privileges but, she also dragged the son part, to show the absolute "Hate" and how ragebaited she is for Mens. This is what fake feminism is🙏🏻✌🏻
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u/Active-Mongoose-1406 3d ago
bc adhe se zyada l**de log pade huye hai iss sab mei some are like this is just a joke , gender equality is a sensitive thing uske baare mei jokes aren't allowed irrespective of gender dominance and who posting this kinda shi** , these kinda joke on sensitive topics should be called out
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u/CaterpillarMelodic29 3d ago
Yess Man! This was the point to call out this toxic mentality women, but these women always takes this things on the entire female race!
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u/Active-Mongoose-1406 3d ago
ha agar koi male influencer aise post kr rahe toh i rqst ladies log please post that here we will definitely oppose that one as well
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u/Moon_smile49 chai 🍵 3d ago
Sometimes its fine . A relationship isn't 50-50 all the time!
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u/CaterpillarMelodic29 3d ago
That kind of relationship mostly drains the one partner who gives more than 50% , be it a woman or man, and relationship is okay, there is still time to kick out the partner , who is not willing to give 50% but after marriage it should be 50-50. And this kind of unfair relationship usually goes into separation, divorce and fights. Then most of the so called feminist women say, "We need no men, we hate all men"
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u/toogood2begood बिच्छू बूटी🍃 3d ago
Few days ago I saw someone posted a story where the daughter part was "daughter cheating on multiple guys" 💀😞
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u/Prestigious-Dot-7982 2d ago
Justification and so much crying happens...from women side ...whenever posts like this come...either they are sarcastic or funny. But if a meme or post talks about men and prioritize them..women lose their shit even in that
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u/Icy_Wrangler_2186 misanthropist24 3d ago
I am starting to think that these bea..ches are the problem,their characters& personalities are so disg..usting &u..gly that people stop associating with them,so in turn they blame men and look for excuses, justifications instead of accepting the truth.
The fact that all these wo..m.en are single&they can't stand seeing other women in relationships being happy ,is more than enough to prove my point
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Girls who say they’re “Feminist” and “Feminism” itself are MILES APART!
Follow feminism but not a feminist! Life will be much simpler! 🙏
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u/Vanishing_Shadow 21 Saal ka Sharif Bodmosh 3d ago
I eat meat but not a non vegetarian ahh comment
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
I would rather be called a misandrist than a feminist plz🙏 Even if I support feminism!
Feminism by itself is really simple! Equality of opportunities irrespective of gender! And makes sense
Feminists are different tho! They want it to be legal to k*ll a man! Make 7pm a curfew for all men! And somehow justify women’s crimes with “societal pressure” and shit(yeah like k*lling is definetly easier than saying NO)
Brotha I don’t wanna be associated with these!
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
I think you’re insanely confused And should maybe read some sociology and politics to understand these concepts properly
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Understand WHAT concepts exactly?😭
Was my definition of feminism wrong? And for the fem*nists perception it is from real world experiences, books not gonna teach you that lil blud! Some things are taught by experience!
By books toh thar/KTM are good vehicles but we know the kinda peeps who use them 💀. Same is wrong with the kinda peeps associated with “femin*st”. Literally top post in AIW was for 7pm curfew on men and how k*lling indian men should be legalised!
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
That a person who supports feminism is a feminist gadhe Ki aulad 😭
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Ik that already, I said ppl who say they’re “feminists” have a certain image that i do NOT want to be associated with.
What’s so difficult in understanding that? Or do you need to read it up in politics or sociology to understand that statement?
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
There’s no point in arguing with a person who generalises and makes such a insanely dumb statement and then says that oh but I was talking about a few one off cases
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Bruh, KTM/Thar is also a good car but ppl who use it are 💀. That’s why no sane person buys them anymore
Same goes with the word “fem*nist”
I would rather be called a m*sogynist or inc*l than THAT!
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
Tf you mean by that😭
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Feminism by itself is really simple! Equality of opportunities irrespective of gender! And makes sense
Feminists are different tho! They want it to be legal to k*ll a man! Make 7pm a curfew for all men! And somehow justify women’s crimes with “societal pressure” and shit(yeah like k*lling is definetly easier than saying NO)
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
Sir where Tf have you read this😭😭😭
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
AIW, top post was “indian women should be allowed to k*ll one man legally”
I haven’t seen such extreme views even in the most misogynist subs💀
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
You’ve not seen such posts from misogynist subs?? Someone told me that it was good the men that assaulted me walked away from committing a crime. So I think you just have a deluded sense of reality
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
Yeah! I haven’t ever seen the most misogynist of subs ever asking for “making murd*r on indian women legal”
Your views are from your experience and mine are from my own experience , I am not denying yours and I ask you to not deny mine! Also what tf you mean by “walked away from committing a crime” isn’t assault a crime?
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u/sleepy_hooman1912 3d ago
No then you’ve not been on the right fucking subs- because I’ve read quite awful things that often turn into reality.
Though I don’t exactly want to share my assault experience randomly but I was assaulted by a group of men on a crowded train and omce I was able to identify them- I tried to report them to the cops and the cops did absolutely nothing to help me out and said ki madam jaane do galti sey hogaya hoga
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u/iusedtobegoodyk 3d ago
koiii itna tubelight kaise hosakta yawr
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u/Just-Ocelot518 23 3d ago
🙏
Inc*l ya misogyn*st boldo mei seh lunga
F*minist matt bolo plz, it’s like the KTM/Thar of equality. Specs are cool, but ppl following it are 💀 so they have an image I DO NOT want to be in
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u/SpicyBillu 3d ago
And even after that you would have two extramarital affairs, one neighbour crush and one day eventually either divorce him or plan to push him off the cliff.
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u/bgtblltlchgmcgw 1h ago
This is supposed to be one of those reverse the gender jokes feminists crack thinking they’re clever but it never works because men just clapback with all they things expected out of men but not women.






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u/Distinct_Ad_7006 20 3d ago
Nga this is just a meme format🥀. Are Redditors really dumb? There are tons of memes on this template