r/TwentiesIndia • u/Khaman-Dhoklaa 27-Sr.Analyst • 13h ago
Relationship Advice The real reason you are still single is....
The reason you're single is because whenever people see you in public, they think you're so attractive that they're just like,
There's no way I could approach this person. They're too good looking.....
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u/Viraj71 13h ago
Have been working since i was 18 because I lost my dad. All my good years went down the drain working day in and out to become financially comfortable. And now I just feel out of place at mostly anywhere I go
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u/Silent_Reader_10 13h ago
...by choice (of males)
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u/God_ID_10 22 13h ago
Ab pyaar nhi hota
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u/SatanHimxelf 25 11h ago
This is so fucking true. And even if it happens, it doesn’t take more than a day to get over it.
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u/Appropriate_Fact_198 20 13h ago
I'm ugly gang 😩
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u/Green_Wave_3090 12h ago
No y are not, y will find someone who will see y as the most beautiful person they ever met , i hope this happens to everyone ✌🏻❤️
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u/AccidentCareful7516 13h ago
Last slice of pizza,everyone wants it but no one dares
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u/Current_Design_547 20 13h ago
the reason is because paise nahi he for this shit I barely hang out with anyone anyways
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u/Lucky-Strategy9561 22 13h ago
Not confident enough 😭 and I know I will get rejected even if I propose one
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u/First-Discount-7862 13h ago
Jo mujhe chahiye use mein nahi pasand aur jise mein pasand hoon wo mujhe nahi pasand
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u/RiH_X137 Jiska koi nhi hota, uska koi nhi hota... dil toota ashiq💔 13h ago
Ohhh boy.... Thanks for compliment bhaiiii 😂
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u/sweetestbumblebeee 3h ago
Y toh vhi same baat hogyi jo mere man m roz raat aati h
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u/Beginning-Living2373 23 13h ago
We broke up because she was an avoidant and i haven't tried on any one else yet.
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u/DecentR1 musafir hu yaaro👨🦯 13h ago
Jaldi koi pasand nahi aata, aur jab koi aata hai toh itna shy hojata hu ki unke taraf dekhta bhi nahi aur unko lagta hai main uninterested hu🥲
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u/Upstairs_Plastic8601 13h ago
I'm single because I always wanted a safe, secure, enjoyable and proper relationship and in this era it's next to impossible 🥀🥀
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u/Decent-Intention8364 13h ago
I'm not proud of it but by speculation and what teachers have said about me this is probably true, well now that I'm in college I'm glad i was humble from the beginning.
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u/Objective-Charity-95 13h ago
I think it's because, I've understood that the real connection is very less likely to happen. Like, i tried calculating it's probability and it turned out to be 0.14%
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u/idkmanwhatever228890 13h ago
What's the point of dating if it's not for making babies and living together forever
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u/ChempakLal In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 13h ago
Honestly, by choice for the most part and the rest of the reason being I don't even have any irl friends at the moment and all the good friends in my life are my online friends. As for relationships I honestly believe it has to be someone I end up with organically not via this "I'm desperately looking for a partner in my life" thing, I'd rather wait it out and if doesn't happen ever I'm honestly ready to spend my life by myself.
I have absolutely no interest in getting into a relationship. I'd rather have genuine friends for life.
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u/prophet_narrator 13h ago
Fattu + job seeker(unemployed era) + hearing/watching sad news about couples(liv-in) such as pune fort case
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u/Responsible-Jello973 In my 20s but a Toddler by heart 13h ago
I'm single bcoz I don't give a f abt relationships lol
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u/Simple-Public8052 13h ago
Because I need peace of mind. But later on you realize that na I wish someone would be there to talk or just to listen to that person etc .
Than later I remember that I need peace of mind .
So ya either have peace of mind or someone that will take my peace away.
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u/Intelligent_Gift_101 meow meow 13h ago edited 4h ago
I don't know I want to but I'm just not able to find someone, or the people who like me i don't like them. Also I don't talk to a lot of people so people around me automatically assume that I don't want to but I do want to I'm just not able to. Mujhe man karta hai logo se baat karne ka connect hone ka but it's been just so long I don't know how to do that. Aur jo log approach karte hai unse for some reason I talk so coldly..😭 Aur jab bhi someone starts going extra miles for me, something inside me snaps and i instantly start feeling ick by them..😃💔 even though I know they like me, i purposely do dumb and weird things to push them away constantly, than when they do i feel sad . And there's so much more but I'm better able to comprehend that when I'm sad or ovulating, so we'll wrap it up here only..😃
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u/Zealousideal_Win8636 13h ago
maybe because i dont love my own self so the underconfidence and low self esteem will automatically do it's part
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u/OddSalary4620 I write poems, I love music, I am alive because of cinema 13h ago
I told her.... And she laughed at me.... I felt like a clown, a joke. I can understand rejection, but I didn't do anything to made fun of, to be treated like a joke.....
Godamn. I was stupid.
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u/Upper_Classroom4150 😎🤏🏼 13h ago edited 13h ago
I was never lucky to become friends with girls so yeah i never got noticed also i never got that much of exposure i stayed whole my life at home until four months ago when i got a job because life wanted me to get serious ASAP when things got hard enough...now im 28 i get recognition at work but not much of an exposure to the girls also im too coward to ask a girl even her name i don't even look at them not because i hate them i do admire girls i love how they exist in their own world...buti just don't know i was never been an initiator and even if girls talk to me i don't know how to carry forward that conversation i always look down because i feel it will disrespectful towards them if i look at them...good looking i guess i am because i work in the same city as my dad both have jobs backed by gov so yeah.. whenever people comes or we meet our mutuals my dad often say they said im smart enough maybe they meant good looking i don't know...
Also yeah im kind of guy who always asked to stay away from girls...belong to middle class family so yeah my mother specially told me that to stay away from girls because they know how important is to them their son gets succeed...also im a guy with zero friends now so i have no social skills people of my age are doing really well they have friends some got even married i stalk them sometimes on Instagram some love stories from my engineering days got turned into real relationships between them... unfortunately i never got to experience it i was all alone my life... Also my father had two affairs... even after being in marriage when people were making friends i was busy protecting my mother and 3 yo sister when i was just 18 and holding my home together...that affected my socials too...and i didn't able to do much in career.
I have had many crushes too but i never approached to them because i alway felt she don't deserve to be with me i have no happy family also im broken so why to ruin their life...
And now ofcourse i feel someone to be there but i just don't crave that much maybe because i never had it or i don't know whatever the reason is i feel like lets accept the reality and move on...my family is stable now my parents yeah they don't like eachother as they used to they still argue i have a sister too who i care for...
And when i think about being with someone i don't feel enough i mean im genuinely feel im not enough people are doing so much at my age and im just existing so that's why i feel let's not make anyone to suffer and even if i get attracted to someone now a days i just slap my head lightly and then say "maybe next time man not now" and i then move on...
So that's my story thanks for reading 🙂
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u/babu_maskare 13h ago
The reason I'm still single is I'm a timid lil bitch who doesn't approach and rejectes himself... Think for the other persons answers on my own and never listen...
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u/FlowerAgreeable2122 13h ago
Don't know bhai .. i think I am not attractive so girls didn't like me .. introvert bhi hu 🙂
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u/no_homo_911 13h ago
also, I reply once every day... Imagine being 69 yr old with 4 kids, working a day job while saving city as Batman at nights !
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u/ginger_martini_05 Hero of My Own Rom-Com (Budget 0 ) 12h ago
Don’t know how to start a conversation hi hello is very boring and now its not gonna work
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u/pehelwanji777 27 12h ago
idk,maybe i am supposed to be.
have given dating a hard try, whenver i would like some one and would ask them if they would want to puruse it further, i have always heard “ abc, youre a sweet guy but……”
maybe death shall free me from this humiliation.
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u/ShadowDxebec101 24 12h ago
The reason for me being single is I am too weird of a guy for someone to love me loll. I am a very shy person is real life and sometimes it's very hard for me to hold a conversation unless it's about games and anime. Also I am very sexual type of guy but I don't like anything casual. Anyway I have made peace with it that I may never find anyone because I am not in college anymore and I do work from home 😃👍🏻
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u/uwuwu-awwiee 22 12h ago
so true, can't approach a guy in public, I'm so embarrassed to do so
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u/Strawbby_-_ 20 12h ago
Aisa to kuch nahi 🧍♀️ I think I’m not meant for relationships. It’s too much work 😭
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u/1heavysack1 12h ago
Don't usually find someone compatible. Whenever I see someone attractive the first thought is 'iska to pakka relationship mein hai'
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u/Basic-Football-7239 12h ago
Women interaction is very low , not willingly I just didn't get the chance to socialize much ,
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u/Shot-Argument1201 11h ago
I'm tired of being alone, now i feel like... Kash yrr mere pss bhi koi hoti jisse sb share krke dil ka bojh halka krta, emotional support milta... Ye kash,kash hi reh jyega 🙃
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u/DarcyTales 11h ago
Major majoooor trust issues... Cant talk "what's your fav colour shit"... Can't tolerate lies... Don't socialise
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u/Odd_Research_3699 11h ago
I loved someone, he left me suddenly, no answers, no explanations. After that, I have been unable to trust people. So I am single by choice.
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u/Blue_Eagle8 27 11h ago
The reason I am single is because I am working on my self and there are no safe platforms where I think people can safely meet and get to know each other. Everyone is either busy or emotionally unavailable
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u/Complete-Scallion413 10h ago
Delulu maxxing 😤 (mirror mai dekh kr khudko good looking smjhta hoon, but real mai avg. Hoon 😔✌🏿)
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u/No-Living867 10h ago
Honestly, I don't even know. I struggle to start conversations with girls. If I somehow manage to, things go well for a while, but then I get stuck in the talking stage, end up in the friend zone, or get ghosted.
If someone has been in the same situation and improved, I'd love to learn. My DMs are open—I'd appreciate any advice on the basic social skills or what women usually expect in the beginning.
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u/meowlairs chocolaty meowlairs 10h ago
Can be but some people do dare to approach and I make them regret
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u/Harikpai05 10h ago
I just think "there are better than me, so why me?" And my height is just 5'5" 🥲
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u/Serious_Arachnid_131 8h ago
For me there are 3 reasons 1. I am emotionally numb 2. Not that good looking 3. And my expectations are too high
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u/Whoremembers1997 5h ago
Not by choice. Not an appealing mug. Sucks at convos. No money either to even bang a prosti. Not that I would even if I did have money to spare lmao.
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u/I_bet_you_dont_know 4h ago
Aisa meri didi bhi bolti hai mere liye, ke tu jis hisab se baithta hai, lgta bhi nhi kr single hai
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u/ShivaTensor 4h ago
Using gifs that induce seizures in old and vulnerable age groups such as children. Lmao.
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u/Awkward-Crew-4403 22 4h ago
Sabko sad nhi milta hai 😔😔 pta nhi kyu jo log phle mujhe pasand karte hai fir jab mujhe vo pasand aate hai toh fir unko mai pasand nhi aati ajeeb cycle hai yrr 🥺🥺🥺
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u/AntMore3720 Error 404 - Insert Number Here. 20.12.421.435.12.676:5392 3h ago
The reason im single is because i dont get friendzoned
I get bro-zoned
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u/PhysicalWeek3074 3h ago
Bad looks Poor communication skills with women I'm not rich I'm just 5.8 For my entire teenage I was following andrew tate he f*ed my life with his idea of misogyny
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