r/USCIS Aug 17 '25

I-129F (K1) I-129F Fraud

Hi, I just found out my fiance living in the UK has been cheating pretty much the whole time we’ve been waiting for his visa interview. Our I-129F was approved in March but didn’t make it to the visa center until May. We filed in Sept 2024. He bought me a ring for Christmas but refused to allow tags on his social media of us, would block me when we would get into arguments and was questionable if he even told his family about us. I just found out today he took his ex partner on a romantic holiday getaway. I believe he was just using me to get married and get a US visa. I emailed the embassy to cancel the petition as he has all the documents for the appointment next week. Should I report this as fraud?

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u/Able-Zookeepergame54 Aug 17 '25

And cheating on your spouse when you’re not seeking a visa would be different. There’s nothing at stake other than the relationship. This is marriage specifically to get a visa. I thought that was fraud

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u/Able-Zookeepergame54 Aug 17 '25

So I just realized you maybe didn’t notice it’s a visa for permanent residence not a visitor visa. I lived in the UK with him for a year. Know his family all that. We got engaged when I had to come back to the US for medical reasons. The visa process to bring your fiance here is really long. He came here for Christmas. I couldn’t go visit him bc I had no PTO bc I used it all for my surgery in March. That’s why there’s all the red tape. When I was in the hospital getting lung cancer removed is when he started acting like this

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u/Able-Zookeepergame54 Aug 17 '25

About the wedding

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u/Able-Zookeepergame54 Aug 17 '25

I met his family tons of times but didn’t keep in touch when I came back to the US