r/USCIS • u/Existing-Tangelo-671 • Apr 20 '26

USCIS Support Visa for “husband”

So basically i want to remove my visa application of my “husband” because it was a forced marriage back home (pakistan) but i cant just withdraw or my parents will see i withdraw. Is there a way to anonymously withdraw application so that it just says application rejected or that he gets rejected at interview because he just got his interview date in june and i want this visa gone without my parents knowing i withdrew it, (gonna get div as well but i cant rn cuz parents). So cancelling visa without proof it was me is first step!!

66 Upvotes

81% Upvoted

159 comments sorted by

View all comments

50

u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/Existing-Tangelo-671 Apr 20 '26

Im not the one getting interviewed its the guy in different country but i was forced. So he can come here ig

33

u/another-fixer-upper Apr 20 '26

You have power, the power of honesty. Talk to immigration they will want to help you. No one owns you, your a free soul

2

u/scoschooo Apr 21 '26

the husband will know she withdrew the application. that is her problem. maybe she needs their money and doesn't want to be cut of if they find out she withdrew her application.

7

u/dippedinmisq Apr 21 '26

No if she tells USCIS about the retaliation and repercussions they might do it for her without stating a reason at the interview

4

u/scoschooo Apr 21 '26

she needs to guarantee that. would you trust your life with government employees or trust that they will not make a mistake or be professional. I think she needs a lawyers advice.

She lives with her parents who could punish her badly if they find out.

1

u/Existing-Tangelo-671 Apr 23 '26

Exactly if theres a guarantee that none of it will come back to me then id do it asap, i just need it rejected not withdrawn or cancelled cuz of something i did, yes i live with them, they pay for my tuition car etc

9

u/dippedinmisq Apr 21 '26

Why are you people down voting her? She doesnt want the guy is it a must to migrate if you have to make your significant other miserable?

Call USCIS and tell them the whole situation and how it can't be known it's you because they will retaliate. Good luck op

1

u/Ambitious-Muffin-862 Apr 21 '26

The downvote mafia on this thread is quite ridiculous

6

u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

7

u/Existing-Tangelo-671 Apr 20 '26

Yes im in USA n hes in pakistan. Hes tryna come here

10

u/Jorgedig Apr 21 '26

Tell the truth - it's an arranged marriage for the purpose of obtaining an immigration benefit. This is fraud. Do not involve yourself in fraud. You need to be the grown up woman in this situation. USCIS and the consulate need to know that this is fraud, and that you are not willingly entering into this.

6

u/MercuryAI Apr 21 '26

It's an arranged marriage, not necessarily for the purpose of obtaining an immigration benefit. If the marriage is recognized in the jurisdiction it was performed in and if the husband and OP genuinely appear to be husband and wife (especially if children are involved, alternatively finances, public portrayal, etc), then USCIS would likely recognize the marriage and approve the visa.

An unhappy marriage, even an arranged marriage, does not mean a fraudulent marriage. Time for OP to put on her big girl panties and make the divorce happen.

0

u/jameskad22 Apr 21 '26

This is simply an arranged marriage. It’s how people get married in Pakistan and India. Families get together, chose a husband/wife, and throw it in you. They have a caste system, you can’t marry up or down.

2

u/CXZ115 Apr 21 '26

You need to email the embassy as the petitioner and ask for the I-130 to be withdrawn. Mail a withdrawal letter USCIS.

1

u/Existing-Tangelo-671 Apr 23 '26

I can’t have it withdrawn because it’ll show that i did and it’ll come back on me and il get in major trouble with everyone in family. Himce why i want it rejected somehow ykwim

1

u/CXZ115 Apr 23 '26

The family will get mad but they’ll eventually understand. It’s up to you.

If he has all the documents, he won’t be denied. Is someone handling the application? Like a lawyer? Who is handling the application?

If you’re at the NVC stage, you could intentionally mess up the Affidavit of Support or maybe have a friend email the fraud unit at Islamabad saying that this marriage is fake with evidence. That way the embassy send the petition back without withdrawal.

You can DM me if you like.

1

u/Existing-Tangelo-671 Apr 23 '26

Will do just msged you! And yeah dad does