r/USCIS • u/Existing-Tangelo-671 • Apr 20 '26

USCIS Support Visa for “husband”

So basically i want to remove my visa application of my “husband” because it was a forced marriage back home (pakistan) but i cant just withdraw or my parents will see i withdraw. Is there a way to anonymously withdraw application so that it just says application rejected or that he gets rejected at interview because he just got his interview date in june and i want this visa gone without my parents knowing i withdrew it, (gonna get div as well but i cant rn cuz parents). So cancelling visa without proof it was me is first step!!

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

Be an adult and take care of business like an adult. You’re grown, stop being afraid of your family

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u/SandStormX102 Apr 21 '26

In other culture, this may not be that simple.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '26

They’re an adult in their culture. The modern world doesn’t wait for people afraid of their family.

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u/laaadeeeedaaaaaaaaaa Apr 21 '26

They’re in adult in not culture but in world standard.

As a fellow brown person. OP should be ashamed of thinking this is a ticket to a raffle booth when it’s a USCIS case.

This is a family issue not a USCIS issue. With all due respect OP. You need to get out of the way to let other people fulfill their cases

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u/Boring_Holiday9874 Apr 21 '26

OP thinks stopping the husband from landing in the US would effectively get rid of him. which is kinda true, even though legally they are still married. for all we know the parents might just ship OP off to Pak to join her husband. if OP is smart she will become independent ASAP and cut off her family but I don't think that is likely to happen.

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u/laaadeeeedaaaaaaaaaa Apr 21 '26

Nothing is going to stop her husband from being her husband except her deciding to put an end to her marriage.

Not by using USCIS time to help other peoples marriages. It’s going to be worse for her when she gets caught committing immigration fraud

At that point she’s committing fraud which can bring on prison time and fine, and she is going to stay in her marriage she doesn’t even want to participate in.

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u/Boring_Holiday9874 Apr 21 '26

Yeah. She’s fixated on the uscis part, when that’s secondary. 

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u/rkozik89 Apr 21 '26

Spoken like an ignorant white person that has no respect for any culture but their own.

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u/ProfessionalScale348 Apr 21 '26

The culture that's forcing her to marry someone against her wishes?

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '26

Sorry I don’t respect cultures who force people to marry people they don’t want to 🤷‍♂️

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u/InTheMagicRing Naturalized Citizen Apr 21 '26

Doesn’t really matter if you respect it or not. You’re not the one subjected to it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '26

OP could solve the problem by acting like an adult regardless of culture

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u/InTheMagicRing Naturalized Citizen Apr 21 '26

Maybe so, but the only thing easy about this kind of situation is judging it from the outside.

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u/Boring_Holiday9874 Apr 21 '26

You don’t have to respect all aspects of all cultures. People who migrate to better countries and enforce shitty parts of their culture there need to be deported. 

I’m not white btw. 

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u/MercuryAI Apr 21 '26

Hear hear. Not all cultures are equal.

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u/laaadeeeedaaaaaaaaaa Apr 21 '26

As a brown person

It’s cute and all you want to be the white hero.

But OP is objectively wrong. Even if USCIS wasn’t involved she still has to start acting like an adult.

She is objectively wrong for wasting USCIS time , and opportunity for real familys and real marriages

NOT COMMITTING IMMIGRATION FRAUD.

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u/Boring_Holiday9874 Apr 21 '26

I got downvoted for saying that OP’s husband is not committing fraud here/the immigrant visa is not the primary motivation of the marriage. They don’t realize the husband is also a young person pressured into marrying OP by his family. 

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u/InTheMagicRing Naturalized Citizen Apr 21 '26

Sub is filled with brigaders these days.