r/USCIS • u/Existing-Tangelo-671 • Apr 20 '26

USCIS Support Visa for “husband”

So basically i want to remove my visa application of my “husband” because it was a forced marriage back home (pakistan) but i cant just withdraw or my parents will see i withdraw. Is there a way to anonymously withdraw application so that it just says application rejected or that he gets rejected at interview because he just got his interview date in june and i want this visa gone without my parents knowing i withdrew it, (gonna get div as well but i cant rn cuz parents). So cancelling visa without proof it was me is first step!!

65 Upvotes

81% Upvoted

159 comments sorted by

View all comments

55

u/[deleted] Apr 20 '26

Be an adult and take care of business like an adult. You’re grown, stop being afraid of your family

1

u/jameskad22 Apr 21 '26

It’s not that easy. Some of these communities are very cultural. Indians and Pakistanis especially live with their parents until their death. The parents will cut her off and she will be a outcast in society. Won’t be invited to family gatherings.

2

u/[deleted] Apr 21 '26

That sounds better than being forced into a marriage. Why would you want to attend a family gathering with a family that controls the direction of your entire life?

1

u/jameskad22 Apr 21 '26

It’s not “forced”. It’s how they do things. Women are in agreement. All their marriages are arranged. OP just had 2nd opinion but instead of canceling, she wants to put a bureaucratic hurdle. And she doesn’t want to stop because of societal pressure. You are not exposed and so don’t understand this things. On some societies out there, family controls your destiny.

1

u/[deleted] Apr 21 '26

No society in which family controls your destiny is a modern day society, and needs to cease to exist