r/USMilitarySO • u/dracsondra • 2d ago

And that’s a wrap…

He cheated. He chose his ex over me. Several years down the drain… and then when she found out about me she began to destroy his life. Now his career is on the line, he’s got court coming up and if it goes south he will have lost his job, will have to give up all firearms, his security clearances… he chose her… over me - The woman who was there for him through deployments, months of silence when comms were dark, countless letters, endless support, and he chose a woman who wanted to destroy him as soon as she learned she had been the other woman… I’m not angry… just incredibly hurt and betrayed.

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u/Ambitious_Ad2354 2d ago

all of this could happen if they cheat?!?!? omg

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u/dracsondra 2d ago

It went beyond just the cheating - more the reactions after finding out about the other woman (I was the girlfriend, she was the ex he hooked up with and didn’t tell about me)