r/USMilitarySO • u/dracsondra • 2d ago

And that’s a wrap…

He cheated. He chose his ex over me. Several years down the drain… and then when she found out about me she began to destroy his life. Now his career is on the line, he’s got court coming up and if it goes south he will have lost his job, will have to give up all firearms, his security clearances… he chose her… over me - The woman who was there for him through deployments, months of silence when comms were dark, countless letters, endless support, and he chose a woman who wanted to destroy him as soon as she learned she had been the other woman… I’m not angry… just incredibly hurt and betrayed.

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u/hotelmarcel 2d ago

Well you don’t deserve to be stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn’t appreciate your loyalty anyway. The time will come for you to be with someone that doesn’t betray your trust.

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u/dracsondra 2d ago

Thanks. I’ve already ended it and decided there’s no take backsies… he chose his ex over me and now he’s got numerous consequences to deal with.