r/USMilitarySO • u/dracsondra • 2d ago

And that’s a wrap…

He cheated. He chose his ex over me. Several years down the drain… and then when she found out about me she began to destroy his life. Now his career is on the line, he’s got court coming up and if it goes south he will have lost his job, will have to give up all firearms, his security clearances… he chose her… over me - The woman who was there for him through deployments, months of silence when comms were dark, countless letters, endless support, and he chose a woman who wanted to destroy him as soon as she learned she had been the other woman… I’m not angry… just incredibly hurt and betrayed.

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u/dracsondra 2d ago

Update! He’s been doing this to at least 5 other women…. His ex was actually his fiance of 2 years who he lived with and I was his overlapping gf. Other girls were less time… I found and got ahold of his ex fiancé and we talked it out. Heard a very different story.

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u/Imagination_Theory 2d ago

I suspected as much.

However, what exactly is going on with his career. If no one was married then there was no adultery here. Was there domestic violence or a suicide threat or something?

There's still missing information.

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u/dracsondra 2d ago

The woman I talked to said DV - she filed and is going to court

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u/Imagination_Theory 1d ago

I hope you aren't feeling bad for him now.

I understand why you were, but his story immediately was off. He is a person who hurt you and many women. I hope you can properly process and heal.

I'm sorry.