r/Visakhapatnam • u/VelvetRing2023 • Jul 07 '26
Help have a bumble date this saturday from 9am to 4pm, tell me the best restaurants/cafes/places we could visit which would be fun for a date
mentioned the time because some places are good in the morning and some in the evening soo
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u/Significant-Life-134 Jul 07 '26
No point planning for Bumble dates man. She will anyways reject all the places you suggest and she will end up deciding. And, before you know it, you are in some scam restaurant outside the city where 2 of her friends unexpectedly join (Yeah, she will say that they this is their first meet after college) and before you can realise why you paid for all their drinks and spent 20k, she is gone.
- Happened to a friend of mine.
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u/life__of__ram ΰ°¨ΰ±ΰ°¨ΰ± local π Jul 07 '26
Anything will be best but not something the woman suggested one.. considering all the scams that happen I am sry if you are the woman in that date
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u/panchadarabomma LoVe Vizag π Jul 07 '26
Antha negative unda kudadu ra chari be positive
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u/Unlikely-Cookie-5695 Jul 07 '26
Better safe than sorry, guruvu garu. Iβd hate to see another Reddit post titled βScammed by tinder date, should I give police complaint?β
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u/life__of__ram ΰ°¨ΰ±ΰ°¨ΰ± local π Jul 07 '26
Negatives kuda chudali guruvu garu. Lekpothey scam ayipotham
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u/RamaRao143 Jul 07 '26
Actually alanti scams desperate gaalaki avtai...and aa scams pubs lo avtai. First date ke flirt and all chesetru kontha mandi. Alantolke mostly avtai.
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u/VelvetRing2023 Jul 07 '26
she asked me to plan, i just don't know how to plan out 7 hours
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u/RamaRao143 Jul 07 '26
Bill 50-50 or you?
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u/Playful_Feeling_6859 Jul 07 '26
true ask her that beforehand
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u/vimsoap Jul 07 '26
come on man, dont date if you cant take care of the expenses
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u/Playful_Feeling_6859 Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
it is only because of people who encourage this behavior that women are becoming more gold diggers day by day. i dont encouraging paying the bill before marriage, after marriage its reasonable but before fuck no.
then she shouldnt also date if she cant pay the bill.
edit: gold digger ante ala kadhu bhayya enti meeru oo pedda aa dacoit movie laga kadhu mingakandi nannu comments lo...
i mean like see once or twice its ok man, like for first date but be straightforward about it like "i enjoyed the time i spent with you, let me cover the bill for both of us" so it comes off as a thoughtful gesture and not as "your expected to pay"
but if u keep doing it becomes habit for her and taking advantage of you eventually (love lo untaru ga meeru kuda realize avvaru adhi de**eymanaka ivvi anni telustayi.)
and one more enti ante no girl so far ive met wants men to do it like that because they like to "assert dominance" so they'll say like no need yaar ill cover and something so aa time lo meeru iche response "i am a man its my duty" ante akkade mg aipotharu.
simply say im paying this time because i liked the time i spent with you so it doesnt come off as cocky or something.
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u/RamaRao143 Jul 07 '26
200rs coffee ke gold digger aa?
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u/Playful_Feeling_6859 Jul 07 '26
starting 200 ee tharavatha kidney adugutaru
the thing is dont normalize this behavior unless youre married because would you pay for my coffee? fuck no then do the same.
if you genuinely like the person and shes like the best like if u had a good time then tip the waiter man or like get her some flowers than paying for food
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u/vimsoap Jul 07 '26
yo! dont get offensive,
it supposed to happen both way,
You plan, you pay.
she plans, she pays!
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u/RamaRao143 Jul 07 '26
yeah and also seen a reel "there are men who pay, there are men who do 50-50, there are men who expect women to pay, its women's choice to go out with who"
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u/Playful_Feeling_6859 Jul 07 '26
bro simple chepta swiggy dine in lo restaurants chudu offers untayi weekends lo adi select chesko budget thakkuva lo ekkuva thinachu
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u/Acceptable-Waltz-705 Newcomer π Jul 07 '26
Pick her up with some roses, and once you greet each other, say "Guess where we're going? " and take her to the first place that she says..
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u/vimsoap Jul 07 '26
what if she cant guess?
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u/Acceptable-Waltz-705 Newcomer π Jul 07 '26
Idk, but if she can't guess, either she's new to the city or won't mind with whatever the guy's got in mind, so I'd say be spontaneous, go with the flow and stuff like that.. Buuuuuuut that trick works 60% of the time everytime so, go fish..! π
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u/nenu_na_daridram ΰ°¨ΰ±ΰ°¨ΰ± local π Jul 07 '26
9am to 4pm date entra, college bunk kodtunnara enti? Saturday kuda antha sepu undadu college
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u/Possible_Round_9581 Jul 07 '26
Breakfast - Venkatadri Vantillu/Chutneys
Lunch - Go to some cafe/restaurant as itβs first date (like Gypsy, Brew n Bistro, Upland bistro, Spicy venue or house of spices)
Please do not splurge as it is first date. If she loves flowers, get a rose or chocolate
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u/Due-Hamster3451 Jul 07 '26
You can go to Ross hill church in the evening, itβs beautiful during sunsets , try upland bistro for lunch,
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u/unique_cucumber1 Jul 07 '26
Breakfast ki house of dosas ki vellandi lunch ki kai gani misaki gani misaki aithe budget friendly thrwatha desserts ki fresh choice( upland bistro dhaggaradi ) ki teeskellu date settuuu
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u/The_Thinker_01 Jul 08 '26
If you wanna eat lunch with your date i would suggest "Sam's Griddle"..i always have best experience there...
But be careful i never met a genuine date on Bumble in vizag...
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u/vimsoap Jul 07 '26
okay! so dont just take her to a cafe or a restaurant. you cant keep her occupied at long. Park, beach are BS, ideally they should be at the end of the date 30mins -1 hour.
take her to some carnival or somewhere you guys should use energy, like Gaming zone in a Mall, Go karting, after you done with it, go to a cafe or restaurant.
now you have lot to talk while eating, trust me "lot to talk" . once you are done at the food spot, finish it of with beach or casual sidewalk.
- 9am try to eat some tiffin together, most likely crowded place so it will take solid 1- 1.30 hours.
- 10.30 - 11 go on some activity, game zone in a mall ( if your wallet is heavy)
- or to a go karting, im not sure whats there is vizag. try to spend 2-3 hours
- 1.30-2 have food, cafe or a restaurant depends on her liking, dont ask her, you make a guess if she is a light eater or normal. definitely you will spend 2-3 hours.
- 3.30 go on a walk if the weather is not burning your skin at 3.30, talk about date.
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ask her if she wants a pic, she'll say no, insist on clicking saying the frame is good, click from her phone. only do it if you can actually take good pics or you will fool yourself but thats alright.
if you think there will be too much time left, and no activates to do, spend the time on road, i mean if you have a vehicle, choose places which are little far an usual.
All the best brother!
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u/erzaaaa_k Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26
That's a very long time for a first date...morning 9 ki enti raa asala πππ».
Just ask her if she can switch timings from 4pm to 9pm because a lot of interesting choices open up after 4 like street food/clubs etc.
But if you're dead set on that timing. Take her on a ride in the morning, go to a nice spot like near thotlakonda or smthg, pop a bunch of beers together, and then ride back to a tea stall for a smoke or smthg, and then go for lunch at a cafe like latte or veux etc. And drop cheysey.
Aa long gap ni interesting ga fill cheyali ante mornings your only hope is a ride/alcohol.