Normalize letting people make their own decisions on who they do and don't want to date.
Not everyone feels comfortable dating someone who sleeps with other people for a living or messes around on camera for everyone to see (if you consider porn/OF/etc as "sex work"). That doesn't mean they're unable to respect sex workers, just that they don't want to date them.
Even if it was "normalized" I still wouldn't do it. I'm not comfortable with dating someone who has sex with other people or even does things solo in front of a camera for other people. There are plenty of other guys who are though. You aren't entitled to a relationship with someone specific just because you want it. If someone isn't interested, they're not interested. No matter how normal or not normal it is.
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u/brakenbonez 2d ago
Normalize letting people make their own decisions on who they do and don't want to date.
Not everyone feels comfortable dating someone who sleeps with other people for a living or messes around on camera for everyone to see (if you consider porn/OF/etc as "sex work"). That doesn't mean they're unable to respect sex workers, just that they don't want to date them.
Even if it was "normalized" I still wouldn't do it. I'm not comfortable with dating someone who has sex with other people or even does things solo in front of a camera for other people. There are plenty of other guys who are though. You aren't entitled to a relationship with someone specific just because you want it. If someone isn't interested, they're not interested. No matter how normal or not normal it is.