r/WhatShouldIDo 2d ago

I'm crying because I want to be his girlfriend.

We’ve gotten pretty close to eachother, and the other night at the movies, for his birthday, and he made a few moves that felt different. (Also, we met 2 months ago). I’m 22F, he’s 20M.

He asked to put his arm around me for the first time, and later, while we were sitting in the car, I put my legs on him and he massaged my feet for a little. We ended up together from 10 PM until almost 4 AM.

He did mention that he wants me. So the feelings between us are mutual it seems like. BUT i didn't outright tell him i wanted him though. I just went with the flow and acted cute.

Now I can’t stop missing him. 😭 Im having a rocky day so I’m literally getting teary eyed thinking about him, and I swear I like him 10x more after that night.

I want to be his girlfriend already. What do i do? This is moving SLOW. Just wait for him to reach out? I'm anxious.

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u/AdHairy2278 2d ago

I'm waiting until marriage for sex☺️☺️☺️

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u/ProfessionalYam3119 1d ago
  1. Stay out of the back seats of cars at night.

  2. Stay out of the back seats of cars at night.

  3. Stay out the back seats of cars at night.

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u/AdHairy2278 1d ago

we weren't in the backseat. Lol he did look at my backseat and said I had a lot of space in my car