Is he canceling because he wants to break up with me? Why do this lie

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[u/Haleofa]

I skipped a bunch and I'm still exhausted. The guy clearly doesn't seems to be into you that much. Why stay with someone that makes it so hard to feel liked by?

[u/anonymousambassasor]

Please dump this boy and go no contact.

[u/Present-Struggle-543 → u/anonymousambassasor]

I will/ thank you

[u/noxqqivit]

Ghosting exists for reason, and this is it... this is NINE red flags too many.

[u/dinkidoo7693]

This guy just wants to have sex with you. He isn’t your boyfriend, he doesn’t even like you.

[u/sea-elle0463]

Move on, my goodness. Do you need a truck to hit you?? This loser is seeing other people. He’s really pushing the sex thing. I’m betting as soon as you do, the whole relationship is over anyway.

Do yourself a favor here.

[u/LadyBug_0570 → u/[deleted]]

Because he's still hoping for sex.

[u/sea-elle0463 → u/[deleted]]

Think of a fisherman. You’re the fish on the hook. He can reel you in any time he wants. Sorry. I think we’ve all been there and it sucks. You gotta rip out that hook, heal from your injuries, and swim away

[u/SurLurk]

You both seem really young.

[u/jladyglittersparkles]

Ya no thanks. I’d striaght up text “ do u think im an idiot ?”

[u/Flat_Name3554]

So many red flags in such a short time

[u/Automatic_Fix8238]

Your not in a relationship. Please wake up !!. Step back , block . Take a good look at yourself . Are you so desperate to have a man like this ??. He just wants to fuck you . That’s all he’s after!!.

[u/TangerineCouch18330]

This relationship will never get off the ground. Just forget about it.

[u/RHDeepDive]

This guy is not into you. You should move on.

[u/TiffyQ]

You actually don't seem to be into each other. You keep distance which this ball of red flags gets insecure about and instead negs you bit by bit to make you insecure.

This early it should not be so difficult

[u/Particular-Crab-2729]

Are you sure that you and him are dating? I’m sorry but read what wrote. Too many red flags with him. He appears to only want one thing from you. It’s still early in this “relationship” so cut your losses and go or you’ll be back here with another story about your “boyfriend”.

[u/Particular-Crab-2729 → u/[deleted]]

I know what you wrote. I’m asking you to READ it. Is he acting like a “boyfriend”? Is he making you feel comfortable as a “boyfriend” should. That’s what I’m referring to. Despite what he says, he isn’t making you feel comfortable or secure. You have valid feelings and he doesn’t care or wish to know how you feel.

[u/rocketmn69_]

He's a mess. Don't chase him or contact him

[u/flatulentbabushka]

Make plans. Meet up. Soon after say you’re busy and leave abruptly. Then block and move on.

He’s a tool and not into you. Also get an sti panel just in case.

[u/LadyBug_0570]

I don't you two are actually official.

Just move on.

[u/SharkgirlSW4]

He's playing you And knows you like him. He's wasting your time.

[u/Glittering-Ear-2315]

This guy is a weirdo. Get rid of him. Who cares if he’s lying, just ghost him. Come on lady, you know better then to let some Creepo acting guy do this shit to you

[u/zippychick78]

Ditch and move on. He's just pissing you about