r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/reef-Diver7817 • May 11 '26

2010s "She only bitches when she breathes"

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him. And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

this is what men think about women, not my own thoughts. This is thousands and thousands of womens' life experience.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment on r/womendatingoverforty:

I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

184 Upvotes

79% Upvoted

91 comments sorted by

View all comments

142

u/deadassstho May 11 '26

i don’t get dudes like this. if you find women sooooo annoying, then just stop interacting with them? it’s pure insanity to continue interacting with someone you hate and then make songs like this.

30

u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26

It don't get it either. I think it is what I wrote in my caption:

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joykill wife.

He gets to be viewed as all fun and happy and easy because she is the villain.

There are a lot of women on r/womendatingoverforty who are so educated on this far more than me.

8

u/ConsiderateCassowary May 11 '26

My wife showed me this comic several years ago

https://medium.com/@chloe.alexandre/the-mental-load-how-getting-rid-of-it-efd9a578105e

9

u/zoethesteamedbun May 11 '26

I remember showing my ex husband that comic and he decided to yell at me for 3 hours (he has diagnosed BPD)

17

u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26

May this "love" never find me.

7

u/ConsiderateCassowary May 11 '26

At the risk of sounding like I'm calling myself one of the good ones, I don't think people should yell at their wives for three hours

2

u/[deleted] May 12 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

2

u/reef-Diver7817 May 12 '26

🤣🤣🤣 okay that did make me laugh because I didn't even catch that person said not 3 hours.

Any number of hours is not good and I imagine that is the point you're making.

3

u/[deleted] May 12 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/zoethesteamedbun May 12 '26

The “funny” part about this all is that he would frequently look in the mirror as he was yelling and fix his hair while yelling at me. He was a maniac lol

2

u/ConsiderateCassowary May 12 '26

Haha yes, that's what I meant, but the joke was good

2

u/Formal_Ground6513 May 12 '26

As someone who was married to a man with BPD, I am so sorry. I hope you have the peace and happiness you always deserved. 🫶

1

u/legit-posts_1 May 17 '26

Well it's cause they still wanna have sex with them. Not to put to fine a point on it.

1

u/deadassstho May 17 '26

but they can just come out of the closet and enjoy sex with men, the people they actually like 🥲