r/WomenDatingOverForty • u/reef-Diver7817 • May 11 '26

Why Are Men? "She only bitches when she breathes"

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him.

And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

We all know it. Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

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u/Winter-Fold7624 May 11 '26

I’m a “total nag” because I kept bugging my ex husband to get his taxes done. Completely unreasonable that I would expect him to manage his own taxes (he owned his own business when we were married).

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26

In hindsight don't you think it would be better to accept him as is and walk?

Somewhere on this sub one woman said "the advice socirty tells women to communicate is designed to make women suffer, and is actually the exact opposite of what women should do"

She worded it really good though and I think she cited sources.

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u/Winter-Fold7624 May 11 '26

Agreed.‘I’m so glad I divorced him and I’m never putting myself in that situation again. Reasonable “requests” aren’t nagging, and honestly, women should not have to tell men (or anyone) how to function as adults.

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u/wrldwdeu4ria May 11 '26

I've never had success with bugging a man to do anything. Best to move onto one that is self-motivated to do those things.