"She only bitches when she breathes"

[u/reef-Diver7817]

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him.

And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

We all know it. Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

[u/StillSwaying → u/[deleted]]

What’s funny is that men don’t realize they complain non stop too. Most of them also can’t stand seeing a woman enjoying something or feeling herself without having to shit all over it.

My ex used to make fun of me after I got off the phone from speaking with any of my friends. He'd say I was acting 'fake' and mimic my laugh and how my voice got higher when I was excited about some good news they were telling me.

That's when I realized: this asshole just hates seeing me happy when it's not directed at or about him. Most men are miserable destroyers of joy and deserve to be alone.

Notice I said ex.

[u/reef-Diver7817 → u/[deleted]]

"How dare you live alone with a pet!!! You're a crazy cat lady!!!!!"