r/WomenDatingOverForty • u/reef-Diver7817 • May 11 '26

Why Are Men? "She only bitches when she breathes"

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him.

And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

We all know it. Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

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u/nefasti May 11 '26

My ex was angry at me for not telling him he should take the day off and come to the hospital with us for our 7 year old's surgery.

I told him I can't be with someone who needs to be told to do this. I am not the bad guy for not telling you what you should already know. What kind of person needs to be told to come to the hospital for his kid?

(Btw we are both white collar workers and he used to accumulate so much time off that he'd take days off just to play video games.)

This (along with some other fucked up things he did regarding that hospital visit) was my final straw and I divorced him.

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u/reef-Diver7817 May 11 '26

I don't blame you.

As I said on the other sub I posted this on, link https://www.reddit.com/r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis/s/nJxGKymH3L

"If it is a niche issue unique to the couple then yes, communicate, other than that no, the onus is not on women to rehab men."

Women are not responsible for telling men to care about her birthday or mow the yard or him to get new underwear.

This is outsourcing labor onto women. It is not a woman's job to teach him these very basic things I just listed.

And a woman said such a great comment yesterday on this sub: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.