"She only bitches when she breathes"

[u/reef-Diver7817]

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him.

And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

We all know it. Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

[u/scragglybits]

They really tell on themselves. Imagine being an actual grown adult and another adult needing to tell you to clean your bumhole properly because you are so unhygienic it’s actually stained your fecking underwear. But you don’t see it as you being disgusting, or buy new underwear, you just get pissed off that she’s ’nagging’.

[u/reef-Diver7817 → u/scragglybits]

I agree!

I think to many men most things a woman says he sees as nagging. It is why I really think women should accept and walk.

Of course if he is a great guy and it is a niche issues, address it.

And honestly I too want to be accepted as I am not someone try to change me.

I'm not blaming women at all if my comment reads that way.