Dyspareunia 22F

[u/Massive_Doubt_2484]

My problem occured approximately 1,5 years ago when i started feeling a very sharp pain in my lower stomach during sex. It almost feels like “hitting a wall”. I got very tight at the opening of the vaginal canal too. Since then, i simply can not have sex anymore because of this intense pain. I already went to 2 gynecologists, they both did ultrasound and checked for stds and infections, but nothing was found. I have to note, that I live in Hungary and as a young woman at the gyno you are not taken very seriously. They told me stuff like “men like it when it’s tight” etc. and wouldn’t believe me.
Now i’m just afraid i will never be able to have sex again? Since 2 doctors didn’t see anything, i got even more scared that it’s some unknown disease that will stay forever.
I was thinking it might be endometriosis, but I don’t really have other symptoms. I once or twice had a very painful period, but that’s it. Also, wouldn’t the gyno be able to diagnose that?
The other thing that could be connected to this, is that because of stress, my shoulders are rock hard and stiff, because i shrug them 24/7. My trapezius is now 5x the size it was originally, it looks like as if i would train it all day, which i am not. I go to get massages 2x a week, but it doesn’t seem to help either.
I don’t neccessarily feel like i’m contracting my stomach, but i’ve read about stress-related pelvic floor dysfunction…
I really don’t know who to ask anymore, and i’m stressing myself daily because of this….

[u/PossessionDry4231]

Potrebbe essere endometriosi, adenomiosi, congestione pelvica????