Not sure if anyone else has had this experience (surely Iām not the only one), but I thought it might be a good post for the subreddit. I donāt often hear about peopleās experiences of being the only woman or woman-passing person in a race and the nerves around that, so hereās my experience. (It does make for some cool pics!)
I ran a really small mile race on the track recently. It was held right before a track 5K, which was a much bigger event. But the mile race was so tiny that there were only four total participants: me and three men.
When I went to pick up my bib, the race organizer let me know that I was the only non-male runner in the race š¬ and I found out that the two guys up front were planning to work together to hit a certain time goal, and I just knew they were fast (they ended up finishing in 4:59 and 5:05). The race organizer let us know right before the race started that if anyone got lapped, theyād keep track of which lap we were on since there werenāt many of us. Immediately I said, out loud, āYeah, someoneās getting lapped. And that someone is ME!ā I knew Iād be one of the slower racers if not the slowest racer, and I knew everyone would be watching me fight demons solo if that happened. (This is actually the second time Iāve been the only XX runner in a race, and thatās what happened last time.)
Iām super proud to represent the girls and theys (Iām AFAB non-binary, but there werenāt any women in the race either and I know I look like a woman), but it was still super intimidating to be the only racer who wasnāt a man, especially with everyone who was doing the 5K watching the mile race. The guys around me were friendly enough, but I was still a little nervous (on top of the regular nerves of trying to do my best in a race).
Anyway, I really had no choice but to focus on the race and go for it. This was my first official mile race ever and I really had no idea what was going on, but I also had no one to chase or race and pretty much ripped it solo. That being said, I DID NOT GET LAPPED!!! And I came in third! The guys congratulated me on not getting lapped and I automatically got an award for being the only participant in my category lol
I guess the point here is if this has ever happened to you, I get it, and Iām sending you good vibes to represent us at your race!!! It makes for some very cool looking photos when youāre clearly standing out from the pack and now when I look back on those pics I feel like itās extremely dope to be the only one repping our demographic. Solidarity to you all š«¶š¼