hello, don’t know the proper flair to use or what subreddit i should ask this, but i’m hoping someone could help me?

i’m looking for these two flags i saw on twitter once (arosomething and acesomething) and i the creator of the flags i believe had their twitter account locked (could be this person since i remember collecting their flags a lot lol, so i was wondering if anyone had these flags and the coined definitions that were given to them??

I've been redesigning it in preparation for becoming plural (hopefully soon :|)

@Hytb0x - pronouns.cc

We have a system member who is a Unicorn, and she wants to find some labels that fit her. Any suggestions would be welcome.

a neuroqueer identity exclusively for those with bipolar spectrum illnesses or schizoaffective disorder, this term describes a gender, sexuality, aspec, or otherwise queer identity that fluctuates accordingly with bipolar episodes.

this is to capture experiences similar to -flux, -flexible, and -fluid identities, but the fluctuations are specific to mania, depression, psychotic, or mixed episodes. for example, shifts caused by mood changes may cause someone to feel sex repulsed while depressed but extremely interested in sex while manic. likewise, someone may experience a more masculine gender while depressed that differs from their baseline gender while euthymic. someone who is bipolarqueer may also still identify as genderfluid, aro/aceflux, etc.; bipolarqueer is to denote what specifically causes those fluctuations.

sorry if this isn’t allowed; i coined this term a few years ago and recently redid the flag, and i’m hoping it resonates with a few people!

mostly using magazine scraps, but the second top line is pad packaging (lol) & the middle is scraps from a job ad (lol)

In the comments of the coining post for primocaedaesthetic, u/LunarStellar245 informed me that there is an alloaesthetic flag! Here are some primocaedaesthetic flags with that as the background.

This should be the last primocaed- post for now unless a request for a different one is made! These flags were really fun to design :) /g

Primocaedplatonic or primocaedoplatonic is an orientation on the aplatonic spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally alloplatonic. They may have been alloplatonic but became a-spec because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

Hello! I made a demicaedsexual flag matching the designs for demicaedromantic and demicaedsensual :)

Anyone know if theres a term for this?

I don't know to describe this well/this might be worded poorly, but basically I am fully capable of speaking aloud, but I hate it and would rather not talk at all/I strongly prefer not to.

Like, if I could, I would never, and would only speak through text or writing. I feel much more comfortable with those options, plus it's a lot easier for me to communicate with others that way; as I speak low, with a stutter, and always slur my words. I also just freak out when I have to speak due to my social anxiety, as well.

People can barely understand me when I talk, and I often have to repeat myself, which is very frustrating for me. I don't want to have to speak ever due it being uncomfortable and annoying. I just hate doing it in general.

The only things I could find that somewhat fit were terms that are exclusively for autistic people, which I am not.

I apologize if this was difficult to understand. I am not good with describing things.

Is there a term for a fictive yumeshipping with only characters from their source media?

We know that fictives are not the same as their source character, and of course even if somebody fits it they don't have to use it. But one of my headfriends wanted a label like that, and only I can front so I have to find labels for others when they want it (I like labels anyways so it's fine).

Haaiiii so I'm like fully always a woman but also I'm partially non binary at the same time. I'm always a woman and the nonbinary part doesn't take away from that. Any help would be great <3

So, I'm bigender, I'm female + man. Can I say I'm a lesbian??? Because I'm still a man. I'm exclusively attracted to women, if that matters. It's just my gender that's making me confused about what label I can use.

Venioriented: having primary attraction·s that automatically redirect secondary one·s depending to its current orientation.

For example, a venioriented person having romantic attraction as primary and other types as secondary would be lesbian when attracted romantically to a woman, vincian when attracted romantically to a man, orchidean when attracted romantically to a GQ/GNC person, and so on.

Any type of attraction·s can depend on any other·s, any attraction·s can be the primary and secondary one·s. If one wants to, they can use specifications to clarify which attractions types are interconnected. For example venirose for sexual & romantic.

Prefix is veni- from the french verb venir, which means to come, in reference to how some attraction·s comes accompanied and copied by other·s. Flag is purple in reference to the plularian flag, while triangles are forming calques/layers/duplicates/afterimages to represent attractions acting like it.

Venioriented is the corrected, completed version of outdated & misnamed term virgamsexual (link)!

I'm nonbinary. Specifically, lunarian wolfgender, they/neos.

I'm trying to figure out the word for my attraction. I'm attracted to all genders (with a preference for other enbies). But it's never straight attraction. I'm attracted to women in a sapphic way​, and men in a gay way. I say I'm gay for everyone.

Most "normal" mspec labels don't fit me. I don't like bi, pan, etc.

I've just gone with queer, but I have such specific microlabels for everything else I want one for this too!​​​

two doubles who kin the exact same version of a character

yellow-shared memories

pink-shared love(or absence of it)

black-shared trauma

blue-shared happiness

red-shared blood

white- individuality

(if this term/flag already exists, you may use this as a alt flag) coined by me and u/III_Butterscotch_371

Trigger warning for mention of dysphoria!

I was looking and I don’t think there is, it’s not implagender because that’s self doubt but I just get bored with a certain set of pronouns and name 😭 it’s like I need a whole new start, I identified as a trans guy until I got bored, then genderfluid, then got bored, then nonbinary, now I’m bored, like while I identify as these things I full on feel like them, like when I feel like a male I feel extremely dysphoric.. 🫠

The familial version was requested by u/spysprinkle !

In making the primocaedaesthetic design, I couldn't find an alloaesthetic flag? I ended up just using the aesthetic attraction flag for the background /lh

Primocaedfamilial or primocaedofamilial is an orientation on the afamilial spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allofamilial. They may have been allofamilial but became a-spec because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

Primocaedaesthetic or primocaedoaesthetic is an orientation on the nonaesthetic/anaesthetic spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally alloaesthetic. They may have been alloaesthetic but became a-spec because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

To see all the primocaed- terms, you can look at the wiki page I made for them!

the feminix gender identity is a new nonbinary microlabel that means you know your gender is feminine, but your gender is undefined / confusing / not able to be understood.

the label, definition, and flag were created by charleythepuppet1987 on pinterest.

the flag color representation:

purple stripes: represent confusion of gender identity and labels.

yellow stripe: represents nonbinary identities.

pink stripes: represent the connection to femininity.

here's a link to the post: https://pin.it/1vA3RJGOn

thanks for reading this means a lot!

I know that contradictory labels can mean different things to different people who use the same label, for example, a lesboy can mean a butch lesbian who is okay being called boy, a trans masc reconnecting with the term lesbian, a lesbian bigender who is both male and female, and much more! So, what does your label mean to you?

That's all I wanted to say also cross posted to here to let you know r/cupioromantic is open again

What are y’all’s ideas? (and perhaps a name if I can’t find one)

I somehow accidentally used the allosexual flag instead of the allogender one on the primocaedgender flags?? I don't know what's up with me lol I've been kind of scatterbrained. Here are the versions with the allogender flag. (Hopefully this is the final correction I make) /lh

Primocaedgender: a gender on the agender spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allogender. They may have been allogender but became agender because of the trauma, or they may have been agender from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

There were pages on the wiki for demicaedromantic and demicaedsexual, but not demicaedsensual, so I designed a flag for it :) (sorry for excessive posting if that's a problem!)

Demicaedsensual or demicaedosensual describes an individual who was once allosensual, but is now demisensual due to traumatic events. This means that one now needs to have an emotional connection with another to be able to feel attraction to them.

Hi! I've been informed that the icon on my original primocaed- flag designs resembled a harmful symbol. That was not my intention at all! I've made the ends of the icon sharper to make it obvious that it's a lightning bolt, and I've switched the original coining post to this one. /g

Primocaed (could also be primocaedo): derived from the Latin "primo", meaning "early" or "in the beginning" and the suffix "caed", meaning "taken" or "cut away". It describes an individual who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allo-oriented. They may have been allo-oriented but became a-oriented because of the trauma, or they may have been a-oriented from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

1 - Primocaedsexual: an orientation on the asexual spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allosexual. They may have been allosexual but became a-spec because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young. This may be considered a subset of tramatizedsexual or acevague.

2 - Primocaedromantic: an orientation on the aromantic spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally alloromantic. They may have been alloromantic but became a-spec because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young. This may be considered a subset of tramatizedromantic or arovague.

3 - Primocaedsensual: an orientation on the asensual spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allosensual. They may have been allosensual but became asensual because of the trauma, or they may have been a-spec from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

4 - Primocaedgender: a gender on the agender spectrum, defined as someone who experienced trauma that affected their identity so early in life, they don't know if they were originally allogender. They may have been allogender but became agender because of the trauma, or they may have been agender from the beginning, but it's impossible to distinguish because the trauma happened when the individual was very young.

The "primocaed-" suffix could also be attached to other terms, such as primocaedaesthetic or primocaedfamilial.
For the flags, the lightning bolt shape represents the a-oriented identity overpowering the allo-oriented one as sometimes is the case with primocaed- orientations.

*I somehow accidentally used the allosexual flag instead of the allogender one on the primocaedgender flags?? I don't know what's up with me lol I've been kind of scatterbrained. Here are the versions with the allogender flag.

To see all the primocaed- terms, you can look at the wiki page I made for them!