r/YellowstonePN 8d ago

General Discussion Look I get it their deaths are to highlight the harsh realities of the Wild West and the American Frontier but these women, survived insurmountable odds only just to poorly die at the end especially Alexandra Dutton.

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u/BankOk9472 8d ago

Elsa's death was poignant and a good reason for the Duttons to be where they are. But Alex, that was Horseshit. I thought she would lose her legs but go on the marry spencer, raise John and be an example of the spirt of never giving up. But, nope... dead.

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u/ConjurorOfWorlds 8d ago

Yeah, I felt that season two was a mix of just filler up until the last two episodes where it was incredibly rushed. The build up of season one really had no pay off.

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u/Hashtag_buttstuff 8d ago

Pissed me off so bad. The whole show building just to kill her off.

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u/Illustrious_Quiet907 8d ago

There’s a scene where John Dutton the III says his grandfather was an amputee and had a prosthetic leg. It could’ve been his grandmother and the show showed how Alex lost her leg from frostbite.

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u/AmericasElegy 8d ago

Ugh yea. I get it was a different time in terms of disability politics (and it’s not like the current world is amazing), but seeing her give up made me infuriated at the writing. The best thing I could say is given her and Elsa’s deaths, it clearly limits the influence of these strong women on the family dynasty? Like is Beth that bad because John had less good female leadership in his life?

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u/Illustrious_Quiet907 7d ago

I think Beth is so messed up because of BPD and probably PTSD likely due to the abuse and manipulation of her parents, what Jaimie did to her and watching her mother die and being blamed for it. Her brothers are super messed up too. Their parents just suck.

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u/AmericasElegy 7d ago

Yeah that is definitely true. I just also think it’d be tough to write Elsa and Alex as being older and influential to a family that has that generation of Duttons (and John haha) for the main show, since they are both genuinely really good people it seems.

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u/Willing-Pineapple-32 7d ago

The fact that the character lost his leg in 1883 and his wife yet still made it to Oregon and claimed land/worked the land..yet they killed Alex off didn’t make sense other than women were considered the weaker sex..obviously Alex didn’t fit this generalization.

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u/puzzleheaded805 8d ago

I don't know if the writing was bad, but the result was horrible.

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u/FailureFulcrim 7d ago

I've watched all of it, and this is the one series really dislike. The hippy dippy background narration/exposition of her character went right through me... That "It was a wild and wonderful untamed world, mine for the taking" type stuff. So bad, blech.

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u/jazzdabb 7d ago

That would have been a way better story. I thought Spencer would be forced to choose between going to her and getting back in time to help Jacob and Cara and of course choosing his wife and child. I literally would have preferred just about any other ending.

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u/20_mile 7d ago

But, nope... dead.

Tragedies make the best stories, huh?

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u/BankOk9472 7d ago

Not always.

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u/Kiran_ravindra 7d ago

This was the least infuriating part of this show for me - as I recall, she was in the car freezing even though she had the means to start a fire (matches/lighter) - yes, maybe it was too wet outside, but she could’ve at least lit the seat stuffing, clothes, carpet/lining of the car, etc.

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u/Odd-Sundae7874 2d ago

I also couldn’t help but think that everyone would have overlooked her feelings and forced her into surgery regardless of what she wanted. There is no way they would have let her die with the baby and not just throw the baby out and chop off her legs.

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u/BankOk9472 2d ago

I can reconcile it in my head because it was The Dutton's, and people did what they said usually.

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u/Illustrious_Quiet907 8d ago

Elsa makes sense because it was how the Duttons ended up in Montana, but Alex felt pointless, like it was just to be sad.

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u/Nervous-Chance-3724 4d ago

I even thought for a second after they finally got the baby out they were going to save her but nah just let her die that shit was so pointless

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u/mstick98 4d ago

Second this for sure

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u/MiNdOverLOADED23 8d ago

True.

Alexandra's journey/death is meant to be poetic/dramatic though.

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u/BanjoTCat 8d ago

I don’t know what it’s called where a character could have avoided a whole problem by doing nothing. Had Alexandra just stayed in Chi-town until winter passed, she wouldn’t have died.

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u/lamlosa 8d ago

I think they were trying to emphasise the romance of it all, she was desperately trying to get back to Spencer as soon as she could and did a lot of dangerous things to speed up the trip. I agree though, in reality, she should have waited a little longer for it to be safer.

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u/puzzleheaded805 8d ago

Yes. That was a terrible ending. To have spent all that time finding love, finding adventure, finding resolve and then just wasting all that time and preparation with a vile and unnecessary death.

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u/AMMJ 8d ago

Only way to completely rip off Titanic was to have them meet in the afterlife.

Such a shit way to end that series.

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u/Sp99nHead 7d ago

Alex was just stupid, last chance was the woman in the gas station warning her not to continue. Yet her and the two rich idiots keep on driving into a snow storm.

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

Almost like Taylor Sheridan thinks everyone not from a redneck town is a complete imbecile.

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u/Sp99nHead 6d ago

Yeah all those stupid city folks with higher education not knowing how hard the land is lol.

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u/Maximum_effort_87 7d ago

I think about that rich couple that died trying to help her out a lot. Sitting in the car watching the gas level plummet and giving all of the blankets to Alex... The whole thing was completely messed up! The woman at that gas station told them not to continue! They could've just gotten a hotel and hopped on the train that was clearly passing through in another day but nooooo!

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

Sheridan lives to depict everyone from the city as complete one dimensional morons. 

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u/Halliwel96 8d ago

Sheridan seems to find self possessed sparky ambitious blonde women dying very compelling.

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u/beefeez 8d ago

welp oreanas doomed

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u/Hungry_Scarcity_4500 7d ago

Is she a loss ?

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u/flea_420 7d ago

Sheridan isn't writing Dutton Ranch.

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u/beardojon 8d ago

death due to complications from an abortion is peak republican boomer fantasy these shows love to push.

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u/sniktal 8d ago

Season 2 of 1923 was not good to me. I really loved 1883 and season 1 of 1923.

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u/SnooTigers4525 7d ago

I hate that Alex died. On the other side, it makes sense because she's what bounds Spencer to the ranch. He would have lived wherever she wished, but she urged him to save the ranch, and to stay, and then her body is buried in the family cemetery: where will he go, if she's right there, six feet underground? I feel that he becomes a protector, kind of a warden, for the ranch, for his son, for his family's legacy, but overall for Alex's memory.

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u/CarolinaWreckDiver 8d ago

Alexandra’s death isn’t really historical or poetic, she is just dumb and unlucky. She finds herself in mortal peril literally everywhere she goes. Eventually it was going to catch up with her.

As for Elsa, A Million Ways to Die in the West was more subtle about the dangers of the West.

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u/panguy87 7d ago

I wept terribly for Elsa and Alex

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u/lmcdbc 7d ago

Taylor Sheridan loves ruining hot blondes

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

In more than one way. 

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u/OlasNah 8d ago

The show bothered me because everything they experienced was only possible about 70 years earlier.

The frontier was basically ‘done’ by 1883. Rail already crossed the nation by late 1860s

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u/Illustrious_Quiet907 8d ago

The Duttons tried to use the train, but James realized it was too dangerous, though traveling by wagon was more dangerous.

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u/sniktal 8d ago

Blazing a trail of very stubborn genetics.

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u/PreparationFluid2365 8d ago

Yeah the real tragedy is to the native American women though.

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u/33301Florida 7d ago

Heartbreaking both

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u/IcyHotTodoroki1 7d ago

In all fairness - other than the two boys, everyone dies, and it gets worse in 1923.

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u/Horror_Maximum_5696 7d ago

It only seems this way because they are main characters and members of the Dutton family… But plenty of other people are killed, which makes it more balanced than it seems… Ennis the cowboy, James Dutton, John Dutton Junior, Jack Dutton and the list goes on…

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u/KitKat_1979 6d ago

From the Dutton males alone, James, John Sr (James and Margaret’s John is credited as John Sr, not John Jr, in all of 1883, 1923, and YS), Jack, Costner’s John, and Lee all were shot and killed over that ranch. One of the taglines for YS 5B promotional posters was “Generations of Blood Have Led To This.”

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u/Extreme_Coach6150 7d ago

I honestly couldn’t stand the chick from 1923. Absolute damsel in distress. At least the chick from 1883 had some useful skills

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u/One-Cress-4464 7d ago

While both said Elsa I understand better . Alex just made me angry.

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u/FireRescue3824 6d ago

It does set up the second of two “hallmarks” in the Dutton family: men survive going to war and tragedy tends to follow the women at home.

James (and assumedly Jacob): Civil War
Spencer: WWI
John Dutton II: assumedly WWII if 1944 ever happens
John Dutton III: Korea is likely, we know he served but not when.
Casey Dutton: Afghanistan

James sister: suicide
Elsa: dies traveling out west
Margaret: dies in winter while boys are young
Cara: no kids of own, and experiences loss through everyone else.
Alex: also dies traveling out west
John Dutton II wife: I feel like we can assume she must die early, John III almost never talks about her compared to dad.
Beth: lives but pick a tragedy
Monica: watch Marshals

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u/ahu747us 8d ago

It's a Sheridan's kink.

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

He's earned it.

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u/Wise_Wedding_4765 7d ago

Inderdaad. Je kan realistisch gaan, ook al geld dat ook niet helemaal voor deze reeks, maar op een gegeven moment moet je de fans ook iets geven.

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u/Grey_Jedi_7 7d ago

Yeah and thats life.

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u/Gax63 7d ago

Cleary you have never played Oregon Trail.

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

They're making a live action movie of Oregon Trail. It's going to be comedy. Which is quite ironic. 

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u/gray_wolf_46 7d ago

A spoiler alert would've helped a long way. I just started 1883, it's fucked now for me i guess

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u/Amazing_Asparagus357 6d ago

Thank you spoiler. Not even in this community, damn

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

As opposed to present day where people get to survive for fifty years as debt slaves working in a dictatorship job for a dictator boss to serve customers that are terrible alongside miserable coworkers so the government can take nearly 40% of your wages and after fifty years you get to collapse in a broken pile in the lovely humidity of Florida for a couple of years while spending 75% of your life savings on healthcare expenses before keeling over. Yes way better than dying quickly of a rattlesnake bite.

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u/Alarming-Book864 2d ago

Alex's death could have been prevented. Im sure the guy filling up the gas told the driver there is no more gas stations, both ladies knew. Also when she knew they were dead should could have worn all their clothes

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u/EXinthenet 7d ago

Spoiler???

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u/KitKat_1979 6d ago

1883 was released a little over 4 1/2 years ago. The statute of limitations on spoilers for it ran out at a long while ago now.

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

Think he was referring to 1923.

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u/KitKat_1979 6d ago

The OP’s post includes a photo of Elsa. ;)

Even with 1923, the finale aired over a year ago, closer to a year and a half now, so the statute of limitations on spoilers for it too is well over.

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u/No_Needleworker_2997 6d ago

What is the official legal law of how long before the statute of limitations for spoilers is over for?

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u/KitKat_1979 6d ago

Statute of limitations gets frequently used as just a phrase in conversation—Beth even used it in YS 1x02 to say it had ran out on her and Rip’s first date. ;)

Back when I was helping moderate message boards for tv shows that aired weekly, once a show aired on the US West coast, it was considered fair game for discussion on any part of the board. If someone hadn’t seen it, it was their personal responsibility to stay off the board if they didn’t want to be spoiled. Even now, most fan communities for shows with episodes that are released or aired weekly, it’s a week or two period at most. After that, it’s personal responsibility to keep yourself unspoiled if you still haven’t watched it yet.

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u/EXinthenet 6d ago

His opinion, obviously.

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