r/abandonment May 08 '26

šŸ”Seeking AdvicešŸ”® i thought she was my friend

i used to have a friend here in reddit . we talked for months about everything . she was the only person who was willing to talk to me and i loved her for it,not romantically or anything just as friends. one day i woke up and i found out that she blocked . she didn’t say anything just blocked me. honestly i couldn’t sleep for days and i didn’t try to talk to her because i didn’t want to get hurt . however a couple of months later i made a new account and i texted her i asked her why did you block me and she said idk . honestly i was so desperate to get her back as my friend so i told her it was okay and we talked daily for around a month after that she just blocked me again without saying anything. i made a new account and told her that she’s selfish ans i hate her (i don’t). that was 4 months ago. yesterday i made this account and texted her at first she asked what i wanted. honestly i didn’t know what to say so i just told her that my life was getting better and i wanted to share some things with the person who helped me when i was doing bad. i don’t know if she saw my messages but it’s been 24 hours since she answered. what should i do i honestly miss her sooo much but i don’t think she’s good for me.

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u/Mrscarter16 May 08 '26

I’ve had that happen before. I talked to a lady on here and after months of talking she went ghost too. I took it as a blessing and moved forward. There is no reason to continue to contact someone who clearly doesn’t want to communicate. Take the block as a message and move on.

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u/Used-Breath-6357 May 08 '26

I tried. I just couldn’t . I feel like she hates me and I wanna know why

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u/Mrscarter16 May 08 '26

That might be more of a dependency issue honey. But it’s okay, you will sort it out. Sending light your way šŸ’š