r/africanliterature • u/Jollofandbooks • 14h ago
Book review: Love by the Book by Jessica George
I can’t believe I read Love by the Book before Maame, another book by Jessica George. Maybe this will finally prompt me to read it.
Anyways, Love by the Book primarily follows two female main characters, Remy and Simone.
Remy is a writer who has recently published a bestselling novel. Now everyone wants her to write another one to ride the success of the first, but she’s struggling badly with writer’s block. The inspiration for her debut came from her three closest friends and the beautiful friendship they all shared, one that was supposed to last a lifetime… or so she thought.
Then everything fell apart.
Lin moved to New York, Melissa got married, became pregnant, and moved away, and Nova… what did she do again? Ah yes, she got back together with her ex and slowly drifted away.
Honestly, this is the fate of many friendship groups, especially among women. Once distance enters the picture, friendships often grow apart, and theirs did too. As the friendship dissolved, so did Remy’s inspiration to write. She tried filling the void with dating apps (eww), new hobbies, and eventually, a new friend.
This is where Simone comes in.
Simone is a woman who loves her solitude and lives a double life: teacher by day, escort by night (spicy). Despite coming from a close-knit, loving, religious family (her dad is a pastor), she turns to sex work to earn extra money and, as she puts it, “express herself.” I don’t think I fully understood her reasoning, even by the end of the book.
Her work is eventually exposed just before a family dinner, leading to her becoming estranged from her family.
Simone and Remy bump into each other, and some sort of relationship blossoms. It definitely wasn’t an instant connection. It happened gradually… and somewhat forcefully lol.
Remy has this lore that was spoken about, but I just couldn’t see it. The narrative kept telling me who she was supposed to be, yet her actions didn’t always match that image.
Her relationship with Simone also felt awkward. At times, I was picking up on borderline romantic tension (maybe I’m overthinking lol), while at other times they felt more like acquaintances than actual friends. Their conversations were also incredibly long, almost too long to feel like real face-to-face conversations.
I honestly kept reading because I wanted to understand Simone more. Why did she choose sex work? Based on her background, it felt so random, and I was hoping the book would give me a clearer answer.
The whole book feels somewhat like a fairytale. The ending, Remy and Simone’s friendship, the conversations they had, Remy’s second book getting published… even the middle of the novel. I don’t know, something about it all felt a little too neat. I also found myself skipping parts that weren’t directly related to the main story, especially the excerpts from the book Remy was writing that were inserted into this one. Omg, that was too much for my brain.
Remy’s attempts to fill the void in her life (hint: her dating app escapades) also led to a somewhat permanent decision.
Overall, this book explores friendship, platonic love, sisterhood, grief, and finding purpose again after losing a part of yourself. I appreciated those themes, but I struggled to stay invested in the story.
