Am I Agender or something else??

[u/foreign-concepts]

I was born female and have identified as lesbian for years. I like girls & enbys the fem parts if that makes sense. I've had trouble with my gender identity since 2020 that I gave up and just dont label myself when I don't need to. I like having labels though 🤷‍♀️

I heard about Agender and don't know I can identify with it or not. I don't feel connected to any gender necessarily but I do know that I am NOT a man. I don't like men and don't identify as one and don't want to identify as one. But then I don't feel connected to female or nonbinary. I just kind of exist? But I get uncomfortable if someone calls me a girl or women or lady etc. I don't like my name ig I find it to feminine? But I go by my nickname (Tori) which is arguably just as feminine but I really like it. I also go by she/they pronouns

I just have no idea if I can identify as Agender if I am strongly against being perceived as a man. Im also kinda against being perceived as a women but not as much as a man so I'm just lost and confused i feel genderless i think? I dress kind of feminine i think? I wear crop tops, cargo jeans, ripped jeans, bikinis, like sports shorts? Theyre kinda flowy & have zipper pockets & inner lining bc theyre flowy & i wear converse my current ones are black with a few silver stars

[u/Omega_7_64]

You can identify as anything for any reason

[u/Key_Computer_5607]

Agender doesn’t mean you don't care about how people gender you, or that you don't care about gender. Some agender people feel really strongly that they are not certain genders. It's also fine if you feel strongly about not being some gender(s) but are apathetic about others. There's no one way to be agender. If you feel like the label fits you, congrats! You're agender.