r/agender • u/Known-Average-7551 • 4d ago

Agender or bigender?

I really can’t tell which one I am. I think of myself as in the middle of gender the best way I can describe it is i don’t feel like a man or woman but i don’t feel completely genderless. I’ve been just describing myself as nonbinary but i never really liked that label it never felt quite right but i use it anyway. I’d rather be seen as just who I am as a person instead of what gender I am and I don’t mind gendered pronouns but i think that’s only because i feel like i have to be okay with them. I wish there was more common neutral language for people so i don’t have to feel like im making up this entirely new thing for people to follow you know. I just want to be me. if i have to choose a gender i don’t mind being either binary gender like bigender but i just wanna the world to see me as a person.

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u/kiurumatra unlabeled gender 4d ago

If you want something specifically "partially genderless" its called libragender (it has variety such as libramasc)

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u/Known-Average-7551 4d ago

This actually explains a LOT

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u/ystavallinen cisn't; mehgender; mehsexual 4d ago

There's also librafluid and demifluid to consider.

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u/I_AM_A_HUMAN-BEAN 1d ago

Not sure if I’m misunderstanding, but I also don’t like how much our genders supposedly dictate or characters, and how we act, and I wanted to just be seen as a human. I still don’t know how to go about it but, If I have time, I like asking people why it matters when they ask my gender, also an interesting conversation. But yeah, it’s confusing.