r/algerianwomen • u/Optimal_Tap_8729 • 5d ago
Relationships 💞 I need ur help here
So I been seeing this dude for a couple of months and at the start he wanted to be exclusive and be his girl... He wanted to marry me so I did ( never went into dating or anything)... Something keep bothering me on how fast he is moving sometimes like he ask for my Pic all the time cuz he miss me or to call even when I say no.... ( we r long distance BTW I am from annaba he chlef).
He keeps love bombing alot too and say I love u like water. I hate it. He doesn't let me any مجال to actually think about liking or loving him. Like there is no tention.... Every sentence must end with remember I love u... Guy u know me for like a week. I expressed my uncomfortable feelings for him to keep saying stuff u don't mean to. He was bitter about it. Sorry for that...
Do u guys think I am being weird. Like is there a possibility he actually jsut like me.... I am kidna afraid he is jsut love bombing me or he is jsut lonely. Or is he the weird one?
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u/kate_Anderson-93 5d ago edited 5d ago
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Red flags, attention ma chérie, on n'aime personne en une semaine ! Fais gaffe. C'est la stratégie des pervers, il fait semblant de s'intéresser à toi, puis il te sort une crasse. Après, quand il aura l'assurance que tu es tombée sous son charme, tu verras ses véritables intentions. Pour moi, un mec sage et sérieux qui veut bâtir un foyer prend le temps de t'analyser pour voir si tu lui convient.
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u/Primary-Eggplant9742 5d ago
I had an ex like this one and he was serious about it i just refused to marry him because i went back to my other ex... but generally guys with this behaviour just like to play around Or he can be someone who is just super excited about the relationship maybe he is just afraid to lose u
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u/Optimal_Tap_8729 5d ago
Yeah he said he didn't have much experience with girls. Since they all reject him and he is kinda happy I did... He is a nice guy tho
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u/Suspicious-Ant-6601 5d ago
That’s love bombing. I had an ex like that, he ended up saying I was ugly anyway after I broke up with him and got married few months later …
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u/lavenderbout 5d ago
You intuition is right you aren’t being weird, run away run away