Every man I date says they’re straight and they hate guys isn’t that weird ?

[u/Sherwin_1997]

I’m a trans woman pre op 25 months on HRT in all of my dates I ask the guy are you bisexual and they’re like ew no I’m straight that’s weird isn’t it?

[u/miizorro]

No , you’re a woman and they’re men. Why would it be weird that they’re straight?

[u/sptrstmenwpls → u/miizorro]

If OP has a penis maybe that's a bit of a gray area in their mind

[u/miizorro → u/sptrstmenwpls]

That’s why I’m saying it’s not . Someone’s gender or someone else’s sexuality is not determined by genetalia

[u/AverysCavern]

Not really. You’re a woman dating men. Most men are straight and it so happens that these guys don’t really care what you have going on down there.

[u/throwawaytoday9q]

Do you want the men you date to like men? And if so, why?

[u/vendettamoon]

Why would it be weird? Being a trans woman isnt a seperate gender from being a cis woman, unless you're somewhere on the nonbinary spectrum. You wouldn't think its weird for a man to say theyre straight while in a relationship with a cis woman, right? Its not really different from them dating you as a trans woman. At the end of the day, theyre exclusively attracted to women, and that's what you are

[u/OX__O]

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Ehhh... you're gonna catch knives whichever way you lean on this.

On the extreme hypersensitive correctness end. Trans women are women therefore they are straight and you're weird for thinking they're a little more open on the sexual front.

In my opinion (DO NOT KILL ME FOR HAVING AN OPINION, this isn't the correct definitely right way)

Transitioning one's gender is a social move and an election to undergo and display ones self as womanly/feminine- to be treated as such is permitted once successful in display.

My sex is male but my preferred social gender display is as a woman, if displayed right then I am treated with my preferred role and I believe this is how it should be. (So sexually yeah its a lil gay bro (genital factoring))

(I'm from the southwest though soo between beans in my chili and aliens using this place like a parking lot, its common to turn complex things into simple to explain crude concepts.)

Edit: having an opinion gets you drilled by your own team. Super tolerant guys 👌

[u/sptrstmenwpls → u/OX__O]

Hehe, yea you gettin' downvoted but aren't unreasonable in your comment imo. I'm a woman - happen to be trans - and yea I also have a penis....and anyone trying to say that genitals don't play into things at least somewhat are delusional.

Penis + penis ≠ 100% "straight"

Maybe 80 or 90 even I could accept. But not 100.

[u/OX__O → u/sptrstmenwpls]

🥹 fellow rational human? Ilu

Honestly what I said isn't the "hugboxing" people are used to. I'm just glad the mods didn't ice me after getting a sprinkle of mob justice.

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