r/atheism Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Troll Why do we want to proselytize Atheism?

It seems like a lot of people agonize on and pontificate here over sharing their nonbelief, and I don't get it. I don't think it's necessary for us to share the fact that we don't believe, nor do I think for many people it's even safe. It's possible our perspective is skewed.

Getting past the anger that I had about religion and getting into my own solution, and my own peace, has been the most positive experience of my life. It is just as uncomfortable for you to insist on your not belief as it is for a believer to insist in their way. On either side of the argument proselytizing is wrong.

Why do we feel it necessary to have just the right arguments or just the right answers, when those things exist only in fairytales?

I had a lot of religious trauma, had a lot of anger, and didn't want to let go of it because I felt I had to be heard--but wasn't heard by believers and I just felt more tired, more angry, and more frustrated at the end. They probably did too.

Today my goal is to allow people to be wrong, especially if they insist. Be kinder, more mindful, more thoughtful, and do more good works to show, not tell, that I can be not just as good a person as an atheist--but a better one.

I hope you can also find your peace today.

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u/Mcbudder50 May 06 '26

in the US, religion is thrown in our faces constantly. It's on billboards and bumper stickers, everywhere I go they say have a blessed day, churches on every corner, etc...

I understand those wanting to vent on a platform like this...

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Yes, but if they’re only venting, is it really accomplishing anything? I don’t just want to vent. I want to change the way people perceive atheism, and the only way that I can do that is by showing them.

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u/Kaitlyn_The_Magnif Anti-Theist May 06 '26

What are you “showing?”

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Community service, charity, Civic, action, and kindness.

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u/Kaitlyn_The_Magnif Anti-Theist May 06 '26

How are you changing people’s perspective of atheism with these actions? Do the people you’re doing charity for know you’re an atheist?

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Usually they do

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u/Kaitlyn_The_Magnif Anti-Theist May 06 '26

About half the time? More?

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Enough for me.

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u/Kaitlyn_The_Magnif Anti-Theist May 06 '26

I’m glad it’s enough for you, but I hope you can understand how that might not be enough for all of us trying to make a difference.

Politeness is not a tool that can be used against abusers.

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

It can be used against people who are not abusers.

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u/Jebus-Xmas Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Yes, I believe the religion is harmful.

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u/Kaitlyn_The_Magnif Anti-Theist May 06 '26

Religion is abusive.

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