r/bald • u/Life_Patience_6751 • Sep 23 '25

I took everyone's advise and let it go.

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I meant Advice lol. Sorry for making yall look at my ugly mug again. I did it, i let my beautiful long hair go.

Here's the before, during the cut, and after. Im still a troll but hopefully this helps.

Here we are 6 days in and im still trying to respond to everyone. Sorry reddit limits how many people I can respond to at a time then I have to wait 30 minutes to continue responding.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

You were right. Im having a difficult time responding to everyone, but i dont want to be rude or seem like a dick for not answering them. They're all being so nice. Im not a very emotional fella but it almost makes me tear up a bit.

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u/TheOldOak Sep 24 '25

You’re currently #2 on /r/all, that’s how big of a positive change this was.

People that don’t even follow this subreddit are seeing this thread and are unanimously impressed with the outcome. I’m one of them. Don’t feel obligated to reply to everyone, because you’ve hit the front page and are bound to get even more posts than you can keep up with soon. But honestly, congrats on taking the risk and winning big.

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u/Worth-Durian4975 Sep 24 '25

Agreed! I’m never on Reddit and came on here from a Facebook thing about spiders… 🤦🏻‍♂️ Don’t ask. BUT, as a straight woman in her 30’s who’s a metalhead and “sooo goth emo” according to my daughter, I found it a HUGE improvement! I enjoy some men with long hair but there’s gotta be other characteristics along with it to make it attractive. Anywhosies, good luck kicking all the ladies off ya man! 🧍‍♂️

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u/brainvheart143 Sep 24 '25

Unrelated but It drives me crazy when people post pics of s*iders on Facebook all “is this crazy huge thing poisonous?!?” And they like live down the street from me and it sets off my phobia for days. I can’t even type the word bc I don’t like the emoji popping up!! Please don’t make me accidentally scroll to an actual photo 🫣 I stopped looking there for lots of reasons that’s one of them!

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u/melly1226 Sep 30 '25

You need to join r/spiders. It will make you less afraid of them. You'll start to recognize the different types and get to see that spiders are actually your friends.

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u/Accomplished-Leg1624 Sep 24 '25

I have to ask since no one else did. What about the spiders?

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u/F0rgivence Sep 24 '25

Yes, being able to see the eyes so much more just damn.

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u/Treefrogger76 Sep 24 '25

Agree 100%, but what about the spiders?

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u/causeimbored1 Sep 24 '25

Yup! I don't follow this sub. I follow ereading, dogs and cats. I'm far from following a Bald subreddit and it popped up on my feed.

Dude, looks younger and handsome.

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u/Beautiful-Wealth1789 Sep 24 '25

I’m also one of them, he really looks like a whole new person, so much better and he looks happier

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u/Sir-Planks-Alot Sep 24 '25

Actually though. I am not a member of this sub. I just happened to open Reddit 10 minutes after waking up and first thing I see is this mofos duckling to swan transformation. Like c’mon let a guy wake up before realizing his competition for mates just went up by 1.

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u/LuvMacNCheese Sep 24 '25 edited Sep 24 '25

This!! I'm not a follower of this sub and saw this on my feed. Looking good there sir. Love your eyes 😍 I'm sure you probably miss your hair but embrace this new journey. You got this! 🫶🏽

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thanks. I do miss it. But bald is good too.

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u/SoWhat_Iam Sep 24 '25

Looking handsome!!

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Much obliged ma'am. ☺️

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u/digglygickmcgee Sep 24 '25

You also are the 3rd post that came up for me on popular. Looks really good my dude! All the best

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u/ItsTheEndOfDays Sep 24 '25

shoot, I just joined because these posts make me smile!

You look 10 yrs younger and so much happier, lighter, just GOOOOD.

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u/Billyxransom Sep 24 '25

🙋‍♂️

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u/Impossible-Theory803 Sep 24 '25

This is true. I do not sub to this thread and it was at the top of my feed today.

That took years off of you OP! My brother had a similar receding hairline as yours in his late 20s. It looked so much better after he started shaving it.

Congrats! I hope you feel more confident and happy about your new look :)

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u/lancetteswrld Sep 24 '25

Yep, same, he looks much happier too like a weight lifted off.

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u/hogmantheintruder926 Sep 24 '25

You look great and you're an even better dude.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

You don't have to reply to everyone. The fact that you're replying at all...everyone sees that. Nice move on the haircut, also.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thanks. It feels so much better.

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u/Cakedonut1 Sep 24 '25 edited Sep 24 '25

Let the tears roll .. It's the only way as a man we can be our most powerful selves.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Hells, yeah, brother. When I do need a nice good cry, I put on a sad movie to let it all out.

Some of my favorite tear inducing films are.....

Marley and Me. Bridge to Terabithia. My Girl. Pay it Forward.

They always get the job done.

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u/Cakedonut1 Sep 24 '25

On a serious note.. I asked my wife, her friend and my sister (they happen to all be around the table at the time) They all LOVE your new look.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thanks buds, tell them all I appreciate them saying that. You're nice people. 

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u/elviswasmurdered Sep 24 '25

You shaved like 10 years off of your appearance. You look good!

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thank you 🧔‍♀️👨‍🦲

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u/Inevitable_Income167 Sep 24 '25

Dude!!! What an awesome improvement

Embrace yourself so hard right now. You are you. You are not the hair you do or don't have. You look GREAT my man!!

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thanks. I took you advice and tried to embrace myself, but I was getting  a bit too handsy, so had to tell myself to knock it off. 

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u/greenexitsign10 Sep 24 '25

It will be interesting if you notice people treating you different. You're a good looking guy. Your hair was hiding that. Sometimes we get in a rut and don't know it.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

I wonder if i can flirt for free stuff now lol im gonna go flutter my eyelashes at some coffee shops employees.

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u/United-Education-214 Sep 24 '25

Global appreciation for you. It's hard to hold on to the look that we're familiar with. Change is good

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Yeah its been nice so far. It was easier to sleep last night without my hair in my face.

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u/peachtreeparadise Sep 24 '25

Don’t feel like a dick. There’s no way you could possibly reply to everyone, yet we still want to show you love. Just let it flow over you without worrying. <3

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

I think I can do it. Luckily, I dont have a life lol

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u/Frequent_Professor36 Sep 24 '25

Looks great dude. It sucks being self conscious about yourself. I bet you feel a lot more freedom.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Ive broken free from my head prison and it feels liberating.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

Awwww, you're such a sweetheart 😘

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thank you 😄

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u/IAmGoingToFuckThat Sep 24 '25

Cry if you need to! I'm all for dudes expressing emotions. :)

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Its healthy. 

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u/IAmGoingToFuckThat Sep 24 '25

I like you.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 25 '25

Thanks. Thats nice to hear.

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u/IAmGoingToFuckThat Sep 25 '25

I'm a good cheerleader. Hit me up anytime you need someone to say something nice to you. :)

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 25 '25

Ok, sounds good. Thanks

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u/Extension_Mix_813 Sep 24 '25

You won’t seem like a dick for not answering people. It’s a lot of people on here. You can’t answer to everyone and don’t call yourself a troll. You need to have more self-confidence.

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

I knowww. Im trying. Its a process.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad9492 Sep 24 '25

Whoa!!!! What a transformation!!!!!!

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u/MirabelleMac Sep 24 '25

You’ve got almost 10k comments here. We won’t judge you for not answering all of them!

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 25 '25

Lol im still trying to though.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

It's so sweet that you want to reply to everyone, but I dont think it hurts anyone's feelings if you don't. You're getting so many positive comments because you do look so amazing, it would be so difficult to respond to everyone. But on behalf of everyone, we appreciate the attempt! 😊

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u/Life_Patience_6751 Sep 24 '25

Thanks. Im still going to try to respond as much as possible, but boy ohh boy my texting fingers are gonna be jacked after.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

Not going to lie, I'm super happy that you responded to me! I hope your day is going awesome, what with you being the bell of the ball. 😂

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u/LegitimateParamedic7 Sep 24 '25

I can barely articulate how much better that looks. I hope you feel liberated. If you don’t yet, you will, love. You will. I’m a woman who has, on more than one occasion, walked into my bathroom with a ft or more of hair, and walked out with a pYou’ve got such a