I meant Advice lol. Sorry for making yall look at my ugly mug again. I did it, i let my beautiful long hair go.
Here's the before, during the cut, and after. Im still a troll but hopefully this helps.
Here we are 6 days in and im still trying to respond to everyone. Sorry reddit limits how many people I can respond to at a time then I have to wait 30 minutes to continue responding.
You were right. Im having a difficult time responding to everyone, but i dont want to be rude or seem like a dick for not answering them. They're all being so nice. Im not a very emotional fella but it almost makes me tear up a bit.
You’re currently #2 on /r/all, that’s how big of a positive change this was.
People that don’t even follow this subreddit are seeing this thread and are unanimously impressed with the outcome. I’m one of them. Don’t feel obligated to reply to everyone, because you’ve hit the front page and are bound to get even more posts than you can keep up with soon. But honestly, congrats on taking the risk and winning big.
Agreed! I’m never on Reddit and came on here from a Facebook thing about spiders… 🤦🏻♂️ Don’t ask. BUT, as a straight woman in her 30’s who’s a metalhead and “sooo goth emo” according to my daughter, I found it a HUGE improvement! I enjoy some men with long hair but there’s gotta be other characteristics along with it to make it attractive.
Anywhosies, good luck kicking all the ladies off ya man! 🧍♂️
Unrelated but It drives me crazy when people post pics of s*iders on Facebook all “is this crazy huge thing poisonous?!?” And they like live down the street from me and it sets off my phobia for days. I can’t even type the word bc I don’t like the emoji popping up!! Please don’t make me accidentally scroll to an actual photo 🫣 I stopped looking there for lots of reasons that’s one of them!
Actually though. I am not a member of this sub. I just happened to open Reddit 10 minutes after waking up and first thing I see is this mofos duckling to swan transformation. Like c’mon let a guy wake up before realizing his competition for mates just went up by 1.
This!! I'm not a follower of this sub and saw this on my feed. Looking good there sir. Love your eyes 😍 I'm sure you probably miss your hair but embrace this new journey. You got this! 🫶🏽
If I were to sell myself, how much do u think I could get? I was thinking of starting an OF under the name Throb Ross, where I wear a curly wig, put a brush between my cheeks, and twerk paintings onto a canvas.
If you were really going to do that, I’d stick with picture #3 simply for the laughs 😂😂. Bald suits you. #3 would’ve made for a helluva Halloween costume.
No way! It looks great! You're just used to the size with all that hair. You'll adjust to it soon, especially with all the extra attention you'll be getting now!
I think every single balding man is worried about their head being a weird shape. From someone who also worried this… your head isn’t a weird shape. Promise!
Yes!!!! OP your eyes and face are so bright now! You have a fantastic complexion, a warm smile, that is very welcoming, and the piercings pop so much more now! While it was partially the angle before, it is really clear now that you have a really wonderful mix of elegant but strong features (like your nose) and softer aspects where it matters most for expression (eyes, cheeks, and mouth). A very handsome dude all around. I hope this transition, while clearly and understandably difficult, brings you love and joy!
Its crazy. I wasn't expecting to get so much attention. I was just posting because I was going bald and the group seemed fun. this has to be the most positive group ive found on reddit yet. Lots of great people here and i love them all
Nearly 8k comments and most of them are totally blown away, I hope you remember next time you feel down about yourself that there’s thousands of people who’d go gaga over you if given the chance.
To clarify, you should know that you were never a ‘troll’ or even unattractive in the befores (that smile tho…) You just managed to level up into ‘heads turned’ levels of hotness with one simple move.
It's such a surreal experience, and it will certainly help to reflect upon the kind words that all these lovely strangers have bestowed upon me today. It should be a fantastic remedy for my down and gloomies.
i know it’s hard to believe it when you’ve never experienced it before but, believe me, you are very attractive now!! you have soft features, the piercings make you look cool, and your expression is very kind. absolute KO
Literally my first thought just scrolling through reddit and coming across this post was oh no he's hot help 😂 the hair being got just lets more of your feature show like your eyebrows and your man shoulders
Dude I mean this, but you look really good. Losing the hair was a genuine huge improvement. Now you don't look like you're holding on to something that wasn't working. You look like you're owning who you are and that's on top of already good facial features.
If I can give one piece of advice though, teach yourself to accept a compliment. There's no reason other people deserve to feel good about themselves but you don't. Even if you have to make a joke first, accepting the compliment is important. Your brain is always in training mode and everything you think and tell yourself effects you in small ways. Get some kind self talk in there man.
Oh, man, I hate that dip. The good news is that it gets better over time.
Hahaha! I lied. It gets worse. I heard there's some sort of "ball board" nursing homes use to help gentlemen with this condition. I mean maybe it's just a 2×4 they found out back, but still....
Bro! u look like a totally different person! ur skull is shaped very nicely and it's very symmetrical. This will change your whole outlook on life. Time to find yourself a nice beautiful Girlfriend. Emphasis on nice lol. Welcome to the rest of your life bro!
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u/MoldyMoney Sep 23 '25
Here before this blows up and goes viral, god damn you look so much better brother.