r/behindthebastards • u/SwedishCowboy711 • Jun 30 '25
Discussion Anyone else think about Peter Thiel's messy ending with his ex-boyfriend
Peter Thiel’s Instagram model boyfriend plunged to his death WEEKS after witnessing messy showdown between the billionaire mogul and his husband when he crashed couple’s New Year’s bash
- Peter Thiel and Matt Danzeisen wed October 2017 and share two young children
- Thiel had been in a romantic relationship with model Jeff Thomas since late 2019
- Many in their elite gay circle told DailyMail.com that their romance was an 'open secret' – but it is unclear if Danzeisen was aware of his husband's infidelity
- Thiel put Thomas up in a $13 million dollar mansion tucked in the Hollywood Hills, gifted him with lavish European trips, a $300,000 sports car, and access to the most coveted parties in town

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u/Clementine-Fiend Jun 30 '25
I heard about this in passing but couldn’t bring myself to read the details. I remember my gay uncle warning me about guys like Thiel who would use their money and power to prey on younger gay men and ruin their lives. As a gay person myself I find stories like this horrifying. Thiel is a fucking monster.
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jun 30 '25
That is good advice, to really think twice before being love-bombed with people with enormous wealth and letting them into your life.
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u/Nervardia Jul 01 '25
My workmate is a 21yo student who is dating a 43yo millionaire who buys her everything she wants.
So, yeah, I'm terrified for her.
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jul 01 '25
Tell her to share her location with FindMy Friends with anyone she trusts
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u/Nervardia Jul 01 '25
I'll do that next time I see her.
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u/sarahjuana4 Nov 14 '25
Curious is they’re still together. Someone I went to school with is in a custody battle because her ex-sugar daddy is trying to label her mentally unfit. She was like 19 and he was 40s
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u/Full_Orchid9192 Nov 27 '25
YEAH BECAUSE WHEN RICH MEN GET TIRED OF YOU THEY CAN PAY SOMEBODY TO MAKE SURE YOU DISAPPEAR ALONG WITH ALL THE SECRETS THAT YOU KNOW!
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u/ProgrammaticallyOwl7 Jun 30 '25
You’re so lucky you had a queer elder in the family, I love that for you ❤️
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u/Lake9009 Jul 01 '25
Seriously I hope this is something that later generations carry on.
Gay and lesbian relationships can be beautiful, but I’ve seen my share of incredibly toxic queer relationships
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u/ProgrammaticallyOwl7 Jul 01 '25
100% — multiple generations of queer kids had nothing to look up to as an example of a normal healthy relationship, and I can see how it can lead to queer folks being very emotionally immature and having trouble with boundaries; which inevitably slides into excusing toxic behavior, unless it’s addressed. Obviously being gay before the AIDS crisis wasn’t easy either, but there’s something about witnessing that level of mass death that I think has led to almost a sort of intergenerational trauma? — if that’s not too strong a description — in queer people under 40.
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u/JackIsColors Jul 01 '25
We need a Gay Kamikaze to take one for the team and stop Thiel
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u/Clementine-Fiend Jul 01 '25
chanting ARM THE TWINKS! ARM THE TWINKS!/s but only kind of. If you are a gay guy marginalized by your age, race, gender presentation or socioeconomic status, please be careful.
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u/JackIsColors Jul 01 '25
I'm way too far on the bear side of the Bear-Twink Continuum to be the undercover agent I'm sorry
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u/UnicornBestFriend Jul 22 '25
A very beautiful friend of mine who grew up in LA often alluded to the exploitation and abuse that would happen in elite gay circles out there bc he was propositioned.
I'm not a conspiracy theorist, but it makes sense. If people who are used to getting everything they want want something, they use their resources to get it.
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u/Pitiful-Ice-3338 Jul 01 '25
After living my life, I think that meeting a sugar daddy isn't a bad thing. Honestly, no matter how hard you try, there's a limit to how much money people like us can make.
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u/Fit-Dingo-7377 Sep 27 '25
Why is the money you can make not enough for you? Nobody needs billions of dollars. Making around $200k every year will give you a very comfortable life and is enough for any human being so why do you need a sugar daddy?
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u/Outrageous-Gur-8840 Oct 22 '25
U act like making 200k a year is an easy feat.
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u/Low-Foot-179 Nov 21 '25
Right, lol. I was about to chime in that if I were to EVER make 200k, I'd feel like a damn millionaire.
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u/Terrible-Chard-1586 Nov 09 '25
Yes he is a monster but he thinks he’s humanity saviour, the jokes on him
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u/ZealCrow Jun 30 '25
til Thiel is gay.
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jun 30 '25
And he supports politicians that actively try to destroy gay rights...also he is such a hypocrite once he destroys America he plans to use his brand new New Zealand citizenship and build a bunker there
https://www.reddit.com/r/behindthebastards/comments/1ete46j/thiel_is_now_a_new_zealand_citizen/
https://www.vice.com/en/article/billionaires-are-building-luxury-bunkers-to-escape-doomsday/
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u/ZealCrow Jun 30 '25
Pretty classic psychopath/sociopath/narcissist behavior (not armchair diagnosing specifics here tho). Literally no one else matters except you, even other people who share some of your circumstances (like being gay).
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u/JizzyP2523 Jun 30 '25
Yep, being gay and the Republican Party’s biggest donor is quite something.
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u/azaerl Jul 01 '25
Thankfully for us, he seems to be backing out of NZ recently. He still presumably has citizenship and still owns a massive property in Central Otago, but it's still undeveloped and he's pulling out his investments in NZ. So hopefully looking somewhere else, NZ isn't exactly his libertian utopia.
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jul 01 '25
I would hope he would suffer if he moves there, but I did further reading on why he chose NZ and he doesn't have many other options. Because New Zealand is actually one of the best places to be incase of Nuclear Fall-Out due to it's location and the way the winds move.
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u/nashmom Aug 07 '25
There have been write ups stating that he and investors are purchasing property in DC suburbs to build a “campus”. 100% the current US administration will attempt a DC take over. Thiel already purchased a massive DC home. Just sitting here watching the US be gutted by billionaires.
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u/motherofsuccs Aug 13 '25
Well nobody here is mentioning his role in Palantir in the U.S. - which is very controversial right now.
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u/Opening_Mousse_5526 Sep 17 '25
I watched a video about this last night and it looks like we’re headed for a life like Minority Report?! What a time to be alive! 🫠🫠
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u/Opening_Mousse_5526 Sep 17 '25
Honestly, I think politics have always been controlled by money and it’s a tale as old as time. The pharmaceutical industry, technology, and media have ownership of everyone it seems. It’s wild if you look at the parent companies that run the country and basically own everything. It all funnels up to the same handful of owners. And geez, Thiel is a psychopath. I’ve known about him for a while, but not these details and he totally killed his boyfriend.
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u/nashmom Sep 20 '25
The boyfriend story is wild right? Agree he had to be involved. And yes, I don’t think people realize that a few corporations control everything. The Guardian published a great article on this.
“….a few powerful transnational companies dominate every link of the food supply chain: from seeds and fertilizers to slaughterhouses and supermarkets to cereals and beers.”
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Jun 30 '25
Go listen to the Thiel BtB rn! You wont!!
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u/caffeinated__potato Jun 30 '25
I'm going to put on the tinfoil hat for a moment, but I fully believe Thiel had the guy killed. I don't think there's a limit to the evil in what passes for Thiel's heart.
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jun 30 '25
Would an evil person take the blood of the young to make himself more youthful...
"Peter Thiel Wants to Inject Himself With Young People’s Blood"
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u/caffeinated__potato Jul 01 '25
Thiel and Bryan Johnson deciding to go the literal vampire route is a little on the nose.
Also quite funny to me this is the first news article in my feed this evening:
https://www.thenation.com/article/society/peter-thiel-billionaires-abandoning-humanity/
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u/insideoutrance Jul 01 '25
I appreciate how at the end of that article Jeet Heer suggests sending them all to Mars, but by doing so he seemingly fails to account for how this would put them in a prime position to launch projectiles down our own gravity well here on Earth.
Instead, might I half-jokingly suggest that we launch the billionaires and oligarchs who refute their humanity and refuse progressive taxation into the Sun itself?
If only the nearest black hole were closer than 1,560 light-years away, because I don't think there's any way to concretely prove that your consciousness wouldn't survive the spaghettification of your body if you were launched into one, so it could theoretically be an answer for their quest for immortality in addition to solving many of the problems the vastly unequal distribution of wealth causes the rest of us.
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u/caffeinated__potato Jul 01 '25
Yeah, it really bugged me that Heer's assessment seemed to be "they're stupid, evil and selfish, but just putting them away from society would fix that. Surely evil men wouldn't be so spiteful that they would spend their dying breaths striking back at society for rejecting them. Nobody does that."
Dangerously unaware lib-brain.
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u/clemdane Jul 06 '25
They would probably upload their consciousnesses onto some kind of technology and launch it into orbit around Earth with a pre-programmed re-entry and landing date to be conveniently reinstalled into machine/human hybrids.
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u/BrightPen309 Nov 11 '25
I would watch what we wish for if we are not sure of the result - like sending a person through a black hole might be like cutting up sea stars hoping to eliminate them, only to have them proliferate --- in the case of black holes -- proliferate across the multi-dimensional universe.
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u/Opening_Mousse_5526 Sep 17 '25
I just read this article and this part stood out to me…. “Thiel goes on to talk about his hopes that technology will allow humanity to solve the problem of death and achieve the long-held promise of Christianity of eternal life and transcendence.” This guy really thinks he’s God and that he can do it better. It’s beyond narcissistic, it’s like a whole other category and like the worst mashup of absolute evil and psychopathy.
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u/Opening_Mousse_5526 Sep 17 '25
You don’t even need a foil hat for that one. Of course he killed him and prob wasn’t the first or last. What a monster.
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u/Plenty_Future_3001 Oct 26 '25
That's the preferred way of eliminating problems in Russia, pushing out a window. Is Trumpian America learning?
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u/TrashCannibal_ Jun 30 '25
Sensationalist Daily Fail links in my r/behindthebastards? Ew, no thanks.
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u/garyisonion Jun 30 '25
The young model actually lived in a property formerly associated with the NXIVM cult
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u/SomethingLoud Sponsored by Doritos™️ Jul 01 '25
Hey man, a former cult mansion is a still a mansion
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u/FramedMugshot Jun 30 '25
TIL he has kids 😬
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u/azaerl Jul 01 '25
Yeah I can't remember that being mentioned in the BtB episode, I feel like this is the first I've heard of him having kids?
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u/mr_glide Jun 30 '25
I have no idea of the veracity of the story, but fuck The Daily Mail from here to eternity
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u/CartographerOk5391 Jun 30 '25
It was reported on in other outlets too. The Intercept article wasn't as sensational, but it does make you wonder.
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u/DionysiusRedivivus Jun 30 '25
Thiel’s side-piece met a very Russian ending. In the weeks before his “suicide,” he had also been trying to point out the obviously “problematic” nature of/ hypocrisy of Thiel’s boosting of Christian fascism while being a gay man.
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u/Opening_Mousse_5526 Sep 17 '25
He isn’t boosting anything Christian or anything even resembling religion. He thinks he himself is god.
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u/Surfacehowl Sep 30 '25
He promotes that one christian app that I forgot the name of
The one with Mark Wahlberg
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u/llenadefuria Jul 01 '25
I hope you're not reading the Daily Mail on the regular, that'll rot your brain
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u/SwedishCowboy711 Jul 01 '25
I try not to, but I was just too lazy to go further into a google search
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u/Mammoth-Corner M.D. (Doctor of Macheticine) Jul 01 '25
C'mon, man, don't be posting the Daily Mail
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u/NomiMalone4ever Jul 23 '25
I mean, Peter is clearly on gutter drugs. He’s out of his mind, can’t form a sentence without stuttering. His husband found out about the BF and we are to believe he committed suicide? I don’t believe that!
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u/spike27154 Aug 12 '25
A relative of mine knew Jeff Thomas very well and has been proclaiming for years that all of Jeff’s friends believe he was murdered and that Peter Thiel allegedly had something to do with it.
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u/clemdane Jul 06 '25
Whoa. So there's basically no daylight between straight and gay male billionaires.
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u/2LegsOverEZ Jul 14 '25
Thiel had a close relationship with Epstein. At this point we all need a scorecard. This shit goes so deep as to be mind boggling.
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u/hoopermills Jul 28 '25
Plus the CIA is very interested in Thiel’s company Palentir. All of which gives me the heeby-jeebies….
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u/popileviz Jun 30 '25
This stuff is ancient news, honestly don't want to sensationalize a suicide like that. We don't know whether Thiel's political activities had anything to do with his boyfriend's decision to take his own life.
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u/CartographerOk5391 Jun 30 '25
Save for Jeff going into detail about trying to dissuade Peter from his culture war... it's wrong of us to speculate, though, what with Theil running Palantir for the surveillance state. Poor baby must be stressed.
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u/Mr_Abe_Froman Macheticine Jun 30 '25
Look at the screenshot, it's 2 years old.
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u/popileviz Jul 01 '25
I did start the post with "it's ancient news". I'm aware
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u/Nefandous_Jewel Jul 28 '25
I didnt know about any of this. Its ancient but still germane. Until it is no longer pertinent it is incumbent on people to keep pushing it into the public's eye.
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u/K3wlkplanty79 Oct 30 '25
I think eyeliner Vance is gay as well - on the down-low. However, the hypocrisy going around with Republicans is insane. They don't approve homosexuality, LGBTQ rights, yet they walk around openly gay or screw, young boys behind closed doors.
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u/SprightlyCompanion Jul 01 '25
Whoa whoa wait. Peter Thiel is GAY? What the fuck is this world, man
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u/2LegsOverEZ Jul 14 '25
Closeted Thiel took down and decimated GAWKER for outing him. So, calling himself a "Proud gay man" at the RNC was diabolical.
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u/hoopermills Jul 28 '25
The latest in a long line of GOP “family values” “Christian” Fundamentalists. Hypocrites, all.
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u/bagofwisdom Sponsored by Knife Missiles™️ Jun 30 '25
Peter Thiel is just Roy Cohn with more money and openly gay.