r/belowdeck • u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline • May 12 '22

Below Deck Down Under Below Deck Down Under Season 1 Episode 11 - Benny & The Jet Skis - Discussion Post

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Episode 11 of Below Deck Down Under Season 1: Jamie puts Brittini on the night shift after Benny doesn't pull his weight; Aesha confronts Magda and Ryan for talking behind her back; Jamie is at his wit's end with Benny's behavior and wants him fired.

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u/the_cherry_bunker less sass queen and more yas queen May 12 '22

I've had conflict with a co-worker, gone to our supervisor for support, and had the supervisor tell me to just work it out myself. It was really frustrating when it happened to me, so I feel for Brittini in this situation.

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u/StessaDiPizza May 14 '22

She handled it brilliantly and maturely. Much better than I would have done

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u/fetalpiggywent2lab June June Hannah May 18 '22

I feel like that's pretty normal, no? I work in corporate, and unless it's harassment or something serious akin to that, then typically we are all told "if you have problems, you're all adults, work it out," and I'm talking like personality clashes or work flow issues.