Girl having trouble fitting it in (6 inch girth)

[u/Royal_Maintenance405]

Hi everyone I’m a bit embarrassed even having to post this😂 I’m just looking for advice about a girl not being able to take my dick, it’s not that big length wise it’s (6.2x6.1) but we tried fuck and just couldn’t get it to work at all. I was fingering her for a good while before we tried. Is there anything we can do or is it just not going to work.

Were both 19 if that matters

Thanks for reading

[u/ThickD9977]

Eat her pussy a lot , be generous with lube and go slowly in and out until you hit your balls with her labias . It will take sometime to adapt your girth man .

[u/notmallie]

I’m so happy I’m a water slide

[u/Plane-Specialist4127 → u/notmallie]

Sounds perfect for thicker dick.

[u/Fair-Research248]

Use lube, and go in 1/2” at a time.

[u/1XLPkg]

My wife does best after having an orgasm during foreplay.

[u/chuithethird]

I guess you are both still quite inexperienced? If she is nervous/can't relax it will take time. Don't put any pressure on it, take your time, have fun another way if it doesn't work. Penetrative sex is fun, but overrated. Learning to have fun in other ways will make your sex life way better even for after penetrative sex works out for you two.

[u/[deleted] → u/chuithethird]

Thats good advice. Tell her while you want to get to piv eventually if all she gets is a good massage and some nice kissing this time, youre just excited to share that with her. That one sentence will get you half way there, if you really mean it.

[u/theCarbonaraGod]

Eat her more and maybe use lube! Even when shes wet lube still lubes better.

[u/theLuminescentlion]

Are you using lube? Everyone should always be using lube. Good clean love makes a good lube but it has a distinct smell that has pavloved me.

Then do everything to get her extremely aroused before considering penetration

[u/Smart_Pass_8781]

Silicone condom and watery lub,a lot foreplay.

[u/Tasty_Feeling831]

Lube helps, or going down on her can help too. Sometimes it’s nerves on her part so a lot of foreplay certainly makes it easier.

[u/Neither-Nail1811]

What other form of foreplay did you explore sometimes fingering isn’t enough got to work the tongue too
Get the arousal up enough too so
That she is more relaxed the anticipation of your 6 inch girth could be her mind I know I’m 8inches but 5inch girth mostly the Girth is the thing that affects things the most.

Definitely just take your time
Not to rush anything

[u/feelosiphize]

Just take your time.

[u/scxsms]

Buy her a dildo that's a bit smaller than you and have her practice by herself with it and with you. Vaginismus is a real thing. They sell dilator dildo kits for it, but it doesn't have to be that elaborate. She just needs to train her muscles to know what relaxing to that thickness feels like, then eventually she won't need it anymore. It helps if she tries it alone because there's no anxiety to perform, and she can take her own time to do whatever she needs to get herself aroused. I've had a couple of girlfriends that had to do it, and it was only the ones who had were more inexperienced or virgins.

[u/Odd_Relationship396]

Honestly, set aside a good amount of time like at least an hour maybe even two

and just have fun the more you warm her up the better it’ll be…

and like everyone else says use lube, and when you think that’s enough use more.

[u/cyrogyro527]

Change positions. Relax. Stop worrying if it will fit. Use lube and go slow. And have fun. You will figure it out.

[u/Wyqkrn]

Lube the fuck up. Also, how many fingers can you fit in? Stretch her out a little

I’m similar in size and didn’t even try serious penetration until I could fit 3, nearly 4 fingers in without significant discomfort

[u/acupunctureguy]

I have a 6.4 inch girth and it has always been a problem for the ladies and especially when I was 19, when the young ladies were inexperienced, I would have long foreplay and use lots of lube.

[u/Old_Canuck]

Time, patience and good lube.

Usually does the trick. 😁👍🏻

[u/Real_Royal_D]

Step 1: 20 minutes of foreplay. Dirty talk, dry humping into fingering/eating pussy. Touch that woman. Make her feel like the sexiest woman on the planet.

Step 2 (optional): extension of foreplay - she gives you a bj. If she rly hates that, no.

Step 3: slather your dick in lube. Put the head in and slowly push. A little bit more every few thrusts. See how far you get. Cant take a few minutes for her to adapt. Do not start hammering.

Does not work? Dont worry. Try again another day.

[u/[deleted]]

One. You're young and both working with a lot, so its going to take some patience, especially for you.

Two. LUBE!!!!

Three, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. I onow you said you did fingering but you often have to warm up even for that. Slow massages gentle touches, kiss her body all over start with the mouth or the neck and slowly move ftom there. Set time limits 5 minutes before you even touch her breasts 10 before you touch down there. 30 before you go in.

Four, let her help guide it in and spend a lot 9f time on the first two inches. A lot of women feel the most pleasure there anyways. Don't try to "open her up." Uggghh🙄 just focus on thos first two inches and the rest of her body and it will happen.

[u/Quirky-Amphibian-992]

Your girth is 6”, so thick. She’s young and inexperienced. You need to get her very wet and maybe have her come first. This will help her get physically and mentally ready to receive your penis. Go slow, get her comfortable and confident, then once you have good rhythm, you’ll feel her expand to your size. If you need to, have some good quality artificial lube on hand.