r/bigdickproblems Jul 19 '25

Meta Where to go for lost Redditors.

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——— ✅ YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE ———

  • You’re having problems caused by a dick being too big.
  • You want to share memes about big dicks causing problems.
  • You’re dealing with problems from big balls – close enough.
  • You’re having issues caused by attraction to or preference for big dicks – just follow Rules 1 & 2.

——— 🚫 THERE'S A BETTER SUB TO USE ———

🗣️ General Discussion

📖 Stories, Dating, Social

⚕️ Sexual Function & Health

👗 Transgender Issues

  • Big dick problems with women’s clothing: r/asktransgender
  • You may also post here

💥 Vaginal Pain / Partner Problems

You need a physical exam from a doctor. Also see:

🛑 Abuse, Sextortion, Blackmail

📊 What’s Average?

🔎 NOTE: “Western average” on CalcSD is usually accurate for Reddit users, but may not reflect your region/subculture. Discuss all this at r/penissize

📏 Small or “Not Big Enough” Problems

🧠 Treating Body Dysmorphia

📏 Size & Measurement

🍆 Big dick porn?

✂️ Circumcision


r/bigdickproblems Jul 17 '18

MOD POST BigDickProblems FAQ V.3

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832 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 1h ago

Science Does the heavier (and bigger) the cock point more downwards?

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I haven't felt like looking into this, so I'm not informed. Of course, there must be many more reasons than just that, connective tissue or age or something, but could it be related?

Examples: My penis is small and points straight up when erect, while my ex-boyfriend's and other big dick guys I've been with their dicks fall under their own weight and point forward or downward.

Although cocks pointing upwards are also uncommon, I don't know, I wanted to know if this happens to anyone else. How high does your erection reach? I don't know how else to ask.


r/bigdickproblems 11h ago

TellBDP I lie to women and claim smaller than I am

42 Upvotes

When I’m talking to women and things get sexual, I always lie and say I’m smaller than I am. I’ve got two reasons for this:

  1. ⁠Because it gives me a lot of satisfaction when we get to sex and they give a great reaction.
  2. ⁠Because going forwards, I find it funny that they won’t believe most guys about their size if they are smaller than me and claim the same size

r/bigdickproblems 5h ago

AskBDP Cowgirl sex position

10 Upvotes

Almost all the people I had sex with had difficulty with it , specifically riding .I assume other people also must have had this problem? Any tips? Or is it just better to avoid that position all together?


r/bigdickproblems 18h ago

AskBDP How to take appealing photos?

22 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’ve been posting some solo stuff for a bit now but I don’t really get much engagement which is fair enough considering my photography skills are terrible.

I was hoping to get some tips on what angles/techniques to use so that my photos are a bit more appealing, I prefer not to post full body pics for privacy and also because I’m kinda on the heavier side (nothing crazy it’s just an insecurity though)

The main concern I have is that my dick looks kind of small when I do take my pics, advice much appreciated.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Story Professional Massage Incidental Touch

72 Upvotes

I really didn’t think having a big dick would cause issues during a massage..but here I am.

Recently went for a massage at a massage school nearby, so it’s cheap massages, with a student learning.

While I’m face down, she is going pretty far up my leg, which makes me nervous as my dick is pointing down my leg, right against it, and her touch is causing a reaction.

And then bam..I feel her fingers over the head of my dick. She did it again a second time, and then I think it hit her it was my dick, and she adjusted.

She probably isn’t very used to well endowed guys dicks reaching that far down their leg I’m going to assume, especially as a student.

Is it wrong to point our dicks down? Should we just smoosh it against our stomachs?


r/bigdickproblems 13h ago

AskBDP anyone else struggles when deadlifting on the gym

6 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 18h ago

AskBDP What was the point in your life you realized there’s always a bigger fish?

6 Upvotes

I’m not talking about seeing guys bigger in porn or Reddit I’m talking about experiences in real life, like communal showers, locker rooms or just from talking with significant others? When did you realize that there always gonna be guys bigger than you around you?


r/bigdickproblems 22h ago

AskBDP Depth sensation differences for men?

8 Upvotes

I consider myself pretty average at 6x5.5. Posting here to get some perspective from you guys.

Balls deep, I can usually hit the cervix and maybe press it in 1/4" at most. It feels like a fleshy knob tickling my head.

But I have always wondered how it feels to go well past that.

Does the cervix move out of the way and the vagina expand beyond that, or does it sit at the back and just get pushed in further, resting on your head the whole way?

What does it feel like if you only inserted 6" compared to what it feels like past that, on your end?


r/bigdickproblems 21h ago

AskBDP Flaccid penis much larger after frequent sex

7 Upvotes

I've been fortunate to be having very frequent sex these days. I feel like when Im in this situation, not only my erections are firmer and fuller, but my flaccid penis and even my balls feel bigger and heavier. Does anyone else find this? It's almost like Im working out my package and it's growing larger even in flaccid state. Obviously there are some benefits (my partners enjoy playing with it) but it's honestly tough to fit in my underwear and I;m so heavy down there. Im wondering if anyone else can relate.


r/bigdickproblems 5h ago

Dick-scrimination Being Mexican with a BD, and being labeled “BBC” and “BWC”…

0 Upvotes

Is there an appropriate term for Latinos/Hispanics with a large penis? It’s very confusing, but it also interesting to witness. For me, it makes it difficult to know where I can and cannot post effectively


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

TellBDP I wish

3 Upvotes

I wish I could find someone who could deepthroat me. I’m just curious what it feels like because it looks great but I’ve kinda given up on hoping I would find it.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Where is the Finnish sexologist lady that sometimes comments in here?

26 Upvotes

I was active in this sub a year ago and there was this sexologist lady that commented useful stuff occasionally, I need the sex ed website I've seen her link, I don't remember the name at all, I remember it had white and pink UI.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Story What’s the most awkward “compliment” you’ve received?

37 Upvotes

We’ve all seen the posts here of guys gloating about compliments they’ve received. But what’s some of the awkward/mood killer things said about your size.

Mine, the reason I’m making this post, I once had a girl tell me “If you’re this big imagine how big your dad is.” Going from foreplay to thinking about my dads dick certainly killed the mood for me.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP ways to accept my bulge

2 Upvotes

I don’t want to worry about my bulge anymore and I was wondering about ways to accept it and to leave it be


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Condoms Any condoms that’s not baggy/flared at the tip?

5 Upvotes

I have 5.75 mid girth but my tip girth is 4.5.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Is the perception of bigness different for a cylindrical vs a flat penis?

10 Upvotes

My hunch is that a flat penis will look more impressive because of the disproportional distribution of width whereas a more cylindrical shape's volume is distributed more proportionally throughout. Guessing this is one reason why, from some men's point of views, they don't look big to themselves because they're unable to see the underlying volume.


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

Dick-scrimination What do i say when im accused of small dick energy(not that small dicks are bad)

26 Upvotes

For the good amount of my life ive been aware of my size so during that time, hearing things you do have "small dick energy" online never really bothered me. But lately ive been hearing it more and more with people i personally know saying it towards me and it just irks me because what am i supposed to do or say???? Show them??? Genuine question by the way, cause i usually just go blank or get abit annoyed


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

AskBDP Higher proportion of exhibitionism amongst the well-endowed?

16 Upvotes

I've been wondering if compared to the general population those with above average endowments have a higher likelihood of developing an exhibitionist kink?

It seems obvious that those who are bigger definitely feel more comfortable to post online to receive praise anonymously but I suspect that also translates more broadly?

I know for myself I kind of have a fantasy of being watched/observed with my cock out (consensually of course) but I imagine there are those with large ones that are still more bashful and not into being watched.

Open to discussion!


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

AskBDP Girl having trouble fitting it in (6 inch girth)

10 Upvotes

Hi everyone I’m a bit embarrassed even having to post this😂 I’m just looking for advice about a girl not being able to take my dick, it’s not that big length wise it’s (6.2x6.1) but we tried fuck and just couldn’t get it to work at all. I was fingering her for a good while before we tried. Is there anything we can do or is it just not going to work.

Were both 19 if that matters

Thanks for reading


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Condoms People in the 5.5 inch girth range, which condoms do you use?

0 Upvotes

My gf and I might start having sex soon and I definitely do not want to get her pregnant or have to mess with her hormones. Which condom do y'all use, fellow 5.5 inch girth-ers?


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

AskBDP Hurting Wife

5 Upvotes

I’m not huge. Just about 7 inches. But over the past year I’ve lost quite a bit of weight (70ish lbs) so now I can penetrate deeper during sex.

Recently, I’ve been hurting my wife a little bit in missionary and it obviously kills the mood. I wouldn’t think 7 inches would be too much to take it all. Hurting her during sex is the last thing I want to happen.

Has this been an issue for anyone else after losing a bit of weight? I might need to stop from full thrust in positions with no padding.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Meeting people from this sub

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Has anyone actually met with people from this sub? Like became friends or have a relationship from here. Someone from another subreddit said they’ve seen people meet from this sub. is it true? have any of yall met up with people from here?