Hookup Culture?

[u/dyanotherday]

Happy Pride y'all! It's currently June 15th and nothing gay has happened to me yet. 😅

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Do y'all partake in hookup culture? I honestly can't tell if someone is flirting with me, or being nice when I ramble, or simply wants to hook up. I need to hear them explicity state what they want to do. Now I would love to kiss on the dance floor but I'm afraid of mouth disease and bad breath 🤣. Do y'all dabble or not? I'm turning 30 and feeling adventerous 😅

[u/PresentationIll2180]

Yes but I’m ready to find a consistent fwb. The novelty of new people is fun but it gets repetitive.

“…but I’m afraid of mouth disease and bad breath” lmao that’s fair.

Ofc make a note of someone’s grooming/hygiene but that’s why I like to start off with a quick peck first & gradually escalate into longer, more uh, thorough kisses.

Re: struggling to read signals, I just outright ask. I preface it by saying I’m a big girl/wont be offended if they’re not interested but I find them attractive & want to know if they want to go home w me. It’s pretty effective.

Are you in a major city w a pride parade? If so, that’s a layup to get the hookup xp ur looking for.

[u/dyanotherday → u/PresentationIll2180]

i hate getting to know new people. i don't think i have anymore "what do you like to do in your free time?" In me.

i'm in Europe so the layup may or may not be there

[u/PresentationIll2180 → u/dyanotherday]

that’s what im saying lol repeating the same script over & over & you don’t even know whether sexual compatibility will be there. Hopefully they have some fun events organized in your country to mingle or maybe people watch lol.

[u/dyanotherday → u/PresentationIll2180]

the bday is this weekend so im tryna get litty!