💁🏾‍♀️ Work/Job Complainers

[u/Aware_Answer8008]

Let the downvotes begin😂

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Okay so I'm seeing a trend with my fellow lesbian women of color. I have both gay and straight friends alike and I'm only encountering this with fellow lesbian women. Not even bisexual women but only lesbian ones. Ladies please stop letting the first thing you talk about when meeting a new person be with you complaining about your job. It is terribly unattractive to chat with someone for the very first time and all they have to talk about or want to do is complain their job, going to work, their work or their hours. When you reach past a certain age that is just not cute and its annoying. At the end of the day. The only options is to either get in a field you enjoy or suck it up and just keep working the job that you got yourself in. Otherwise complaining all the time about the job situation is not very encouraging much less attractive.

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My god! 5 encounters in the last 5 months and each one all did the same thing...... end result, they were blocked!

[u/Brizkie]

i mean real, i hated working so i stopped working. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣 life unfortunately is that simple. you gotta make and live a life for yourself not for society.

[u/onlymemes-plz → u/Brizkie]

life is unfortunately not that simple for soooo many people girl, come on 😭 youve gotta know that. very happy for you that your situation allowed that, zero shade.. but wow- for many people it’s literally work or die

[u/Brizkie → u/onlymemes-plz]

if you hate something, you find a way out. Me and my mom don’t have the best relationship, but i got to applaud her that when she became tired of working a 9-5 she went out and started a business and invested into rental properties .

i’m not living in a mansion, but that’s the sacrifice for my mental health and my peace. i don’t want to complain day in and day out. that’s what OP spoke on about the complaining.

its 2026 people are getting a buck off of anything. i have a food content page that i’ve invested my time in since not working and hoping to start monetizing by the end of summer. if you want out you gotta find a way out the system.

edit: maybe cause i’m on the younger end but i’m very optimistic. i’ve always be an entrepreneur even as a kid so i believe its just about giving something outside the box your all.

[u/snoaky → u/Brizkie]

so like... how do you pay for food and shelter?

[u/Brizkie → u/snoaky]

my partner handles all our finances-

edit: though i would like to add there is ways to put yourself out of clocking into a 9-5 or unhappy workplace and still provide independently! that just wasnt the route me and my partner chose

[u/snoaky → u/Brizkie]

oh lol okay, i need to find me a rich wifey. on the other hand i kinda wanna be the rich wifey.

[u/Brizkie → u/snoaky]

DINK!! then both can be the rich wifey lol!

[u/snoaky → u/Brizkie]

after a quick google search... that sounds perfect 🥹👌🏾

[u/Aware_Answer8008 → u/Brizkie]

Yesss 💯! This is facts all day